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A Man’s True Tenderness – a Woman’s Sharing
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A Man’s True Tenderness – a Woman’s Sharing

By Nicole Serafin · On May 1, 2014

Until recently, I had previously only ever felt a man’s true tenderness once in my life; a tenderness where there is no holding back, no protection or guard, just pure love and adoration, for not only themselves but also another.

To experience a man’s true tenderness is nothing short of amazing and exquisite – to feel the absolute joy in them, the expression of and being of gentleness, no holding back from all that they are.

There is a strength within this tenderness, without any hardness.

Observing such a different way of being in the men in and around my life, knowing and feeling there was a tenderness within, but that it was not being lived or expressed, I felt there was a fear that if their tenderness was let out for anyone to see, they would be seen as weak.

Why do we as a society support and allow men to be all that they are not when they are truly beauty-full?

Growing up, we are led to believe that this is just how things are; a given, an ideal so to speak, that we do not question. It becomes a part of us – a consciousness you could say – that boys and girls, men and women are not just separated by gender but also by clothes, colours, hairstyles, career choices, etc.

Nowhere do we allow or support a man to grow up being able to express what he is feeling.

Why should women be the only ones allowed to express, to be gentle and to nurture, while men are supposed to be hard, tough, the one who is always the rock? Is there something here that maybe we have taken for granted?

What if there is more to men than what we allow them to be?

Could it be possible to allow ourselves to feel that men are equally as tender as women, and that perhaps the life they are living is not truly the way they could be living?

Is it possible that underneath that hard, tough exterior is an amazing quality, a feeling of tenderness that is so special it needs to be nurtured, encouraged and supported by us as women so that quality can be expressed?

If you have ever felt the true tenderness of a man, this is a question that does not even need to be asked.

We all deserve to live nothing less than the tenderness that we are, men included.

To suppress and ignore this tenderness is robbing society of a true beauty, unlike any other.

I have experienced a man’s true tenderness in conversation, in passing and simply in their presence. It is truly inspirational and amazing.

To all the men in the world; you shine equally as do we all, let your tenderness be seen and felt… for you are all truly magnificent.

That men now have the opportunity to feel and be this true tenderness has been made possible, and is supported by, the work and livingness of Universal Medicine and Serge Benhayon. I thank you Serge for being the tender and glorious man that you are and that you live and reflect for all to see, feel and be inspired by. For it is this livingness that allows others to also connect to the tenderness they are and bless us all, equally so.

By Nicole Serafin, Australia

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Nicole Serafin

Living in Tintenbar with my amazing husband and three beautiful children. Life is simple, uncomplicated and full of magical moments everywhere I look. Birds chirping, kookaburras singing and kids playing outside chasing each other around and around, making me dizzy at times but still glorious to watch. Not a moment goes by where I do not stop to appreciate all that I am, who we are as individuals and how we are together as a family, truly glorious in every way.

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246 Comments

  • Jennifer Smith says: August 23, 2015 at 8:09 AM

    A very gorgeous blog Nicole and one worth sharing widely. Thank you.

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  • Anne-Marie O Donnell says: August 22, 2015 at 5:42 AM

    ‘We all deserve to live nothing less than the tenderness that we are, men included. To suppress and ignore this tenderness is robbing society of a true beauty, unlike any other.’ To be in the company and presence of a person in their tenderness is deeply healing. All of the hardness and protection slips away and the feeling of connection to another is exquisite.

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  • Amita says: August 21, 2015 at 7:12 PM

    Men are equally tender and sensitive as women. If we just stop to feel and allow a man to show his sensitivity, he will then show his tenderness as he drops his barriers and let’s go of the hardness and control. Over the last few years as I have allowed myself to show my sensitivity my husband has also shown his sensitivity. This openness has allowed us both to connect to our tenderness and let go of the control and hardness that used to drive us. It is beautiful to see the tenderness in my husband.

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  • Debra Douglas says: August 21, 2015 at 6:09 PM

    I agree Nicole that ‘To suppress and ignore this tenderness is robbing society of a true beauty.’ When we are not all fully permitted to be the gentle tender beings that we truly are, all of us miss out. So heart warming to read the comments on this blog and see that there is much input from our amazing tender men.

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  • Peter Campbell says: August 21, 2015 at 5:22 PM

    “There is a strength within this tenderness, without any hardness.” These are beautiful words, and it’s wonderful that more men are feeling able to celebrate how glorious they truly are.

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  • Giselle says: August 21, 2015 at 5:25 AM

    Beautifully said Nicole. Except for perhaps my own, there is nothing I appreciate more than a mans tenderness and strength in that. For without it I am without the inspiration to also go to the depth of my own delicateness as a woman.

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  • Fiona Cochran says: August 21, 2015 at 4:03 AM

    Watching the tenderness of a young girl and a young boy when they are interacting and there is no difference. Watch the parenting of the young girl and the young boy and you see a complete contrast. Why do we not meet each child, regardless of gender, with equal gentleness? Why do we stop our young children from crying, particularly boys? Tenderness is a beautiful quality to feel in anyone, particularly a gentle-man.

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  • Kevin McHardy says: August 18, 2015 at 12:08 PM

    As a child I was always told to harden up or that I was too sensitive, so when that is coming at you from all directions its hard to stay connected to that tenderness that we all have. Traditionally it was man who had to go to war and there is not much room for tenderness on the battle field but a lot of us don’t have that threat anymore, so it is only down to our own inner battles that keep us away from the tender beings we are meant to be.

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  • Leigh Matson says: August 5, 2015 at 6:48 PM

    There is something very special about a truly tender man. The love that they can share can melt any barriers or hardness we may hold. But if we ignore that they are sensitive and at the same time ignore our own equal sensitivity we don’t get to experience that tenderness. In that denial of the fact that men and women are sensitive we miss out on so much. By honouring such amazing things can happen.

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  • Cathy Hackett says: August 5, 2015 at 2:12 PM

    A really great challenge in a society riddled with he-man images and lifestyle ideals for men that infer a weakness rather than a personal choice if not being followed. I do sometimes get a glimpse of the natural fragility in men, a window into their true essence, but it can be short-lived, as if they quickly begin to feel out of their depth, in unfamiliar territory, unprotected and exposed. A real shame as it’s lovely to make a connection with a man in that quality, no matter how briefly.

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  • Shelley Jones says: August 3, 2015 at 2:03 PM

    Tenderness is part of our true nature and is sorely lacking in this world. Great blog Nicole calling our attention to this precious part of ourselves, men and women alike. It is great to celebrate it every time we see and feel this most natural expression of the love that we all are.

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  • Anne Broadbent says: August 3, 2015 at 4:45 AM

    Yet another great article. I love reading your articles Nicole Serafin as they are so easy to read with great messages/truth for us all. I too have experienced men’s tenderness and gentleness. When men are like this it feels like they are totally open and approachable. It is much easier to have a conversation with them as there is not that tough rough exterior of protection that is usually presented. Men and women are equally amazing in that we all have the same beautiful qualities waiting to be ignited.

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  • Carola Woods says: August 2, 2015 at 5:02 PM

    When we do begin to consider and appreciate that there IS much more to men that we as a society allow them to be, we will begin to feel that the true power of men is who they are in essence. When a man expresses from the tenderness that he knows he is it feels so deeply loving and there is a strength that is so inspiring. I can feel that I am met and honored in truth and love and this allows me the space to feel all that I am. And with this we invite a deeper honoring and connection in all our relationships to unfold.

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  • Peter Campbell says: July 24, 2015 at 2:04 AM

    You ask a great question Nicole,” Why do we as a society support and allow men to be all that they are not when they are truly beauty-full.” It is beautiful to see men expressing their natural love and tenderness. It’s such a powerful expression.

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  • Oliver Hallock says: July 23, 2015 at 10:11 AM

    A tender man, is a true man, for in truth regardless of the nature of his upbringing, environment, work place or physicality – all men have immense innate gentle beauty and tender qualities.

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    • Anne Broadbent says: August 3, 2015 at 4:55 AM

      Beautiful Oliver. This is so true and it is lovely to have a man express in this manner about the true beauty of men.

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  • Toni Steenson says: July 21, 2015 at 7:49 PM

    I agree Nicole the world is missing out through the impositions we put on men so they feel they have to mask their tenderness. We all know there is no difference to the gentle tender movements of a young girl or boy so why is there a difference in men and women. Why is it more okay for a woman to be tender when men do tenderness so very well.

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  • Amita says: July 21, 2015 at 2:52 PM

    Men in their tenderness are really powerful, and most of them don’t even know it. They are caught up in the hard exterior, putting up a front. It is so important to encourage them to connect to their natural tenderness. As they connect to this natural being, they share such beautiful strength, becoming more nurturing and supportive in a very loving way. The powerful-ness behind tenderness is underestimated.

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  • Concetta O'Donnell says: July 15, 2015 at 6:05 AM

    Yes I very much appreciate and cherish this quality of tenderness in a man. I feel safe and am able to be open as a woman in his presence. When he is true, it welcomes me to be too.

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  • chris james says: July 5, 2015 at 6:35 AM

    Strength and tenderness is very much like power and innocence….qualities that you don’t often see together, but as we let go of the shields that we have accumulated over our lives to try and protect ourselves from the hurts we have not healed, then these qualities can shine through together, and they are amazing to feel.

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  • Mary Adler says: July 4, 2015 at 1:08 PM

    When we really get to know a man we find the tender young boy is still there underneath all the protective toughness. As a woman I love to feel this manly tenderness as it invites me to connect to a deep tenderness within myself. Physical strength is no barrier to tenderness.

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    • Julie Matson says: July 26, 2015 at 4:39 AM

      I love what you have written here Mary, it really is so special to feel the tenderness of a man and know that, that is his natural expression, not all of the macho bravado which is often chosen instead.

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  • Kevin McHardy says: June 30, 2015 at 1:17 PM

    If we got to the real reason that a lot of men have the need to be superior, have more, or have different religious ideologies and go to war against each other, we as men would not have to be so protected and brought up in a toughened way in order to cope with conflict if it should arise. It was considered a dad’s duty to toughen up and remove all tenderness from his boys so they could cope with what life has to throw at them. As we know now there is no weakness in tenderness.

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  • Pernilla Horne says: June 5, 2015 at 6:46 AM

    ‘Why do we as a society support and allow men to be all that they are not when they are truly beauty-full?’
    Why indeed.
    I am blessed to have many tender, open men in my life, and for those that haven’t yet chosen, I commit to reflecting my innate being in all my delicate, glorious self, allowing a different choice.

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  • Zofia says: June 4, 2015 at 7:48 AM

    To feel the tenderness of a man is exquisite, and also remembered as if soft, though very definite footprints in freshly laid snow: the way that the eyes hold (you) with such depth, their hands gracefully gently pass something to you communicating respect, a handshake or embrace that messages honour to be in your great presence… because they are in theirs too, the way their deep voice resonates to behold with the roundness of inclusivity, how they walk past leaving behind nothing except a trail of scented steadiness that you remember and connect to. To experience the divinity of a man’s tender beauty is always and forever treasured.

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  • Merrilee Pettinato says: June 4, 2015 at 6:13 AM

    I am blessed to share our home on occasions with several tender men, this has been the most beautiful experience to be in their presence and to share with true openness. Melts my heart and our connections have been significant markers in feeling a true man but equally feeling from there tenderness the reflection of the sacredness I am.

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  • Carola Woods says: June 2, 2015 at 7:20 PM

    Just beautiful Nicole – thank you. When a man expresses from his tenderness it is truly magnificent. It is a graceful strength that melts me time and time again. And the exquisiteness of our tenderness is a quality that we all need to feel, honor, live and celebrate with each other equally more. After all it is our natural way of being and there is no denying the joy that we feel when this quality is honored.

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  • Emily Newman says: June 1, 2015 at 5:04 AM

    Yea I agree, there is an exquisiteness to a mans tenderness like no other.

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  • Anna S says: May 30, 2015 at 3:17 PM

    “To suppress and ignore this tenderness is robbing society of a true beauty, unlike any other” this just sums up the whole blog for me. Thank you Nicole

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  • Raymond Karam says: May 24, 2015 at 4:43 AM

    Hello Nicole, thank you for the blog. It is certainly an interesting conversation to start and have. Why aren’t the young sensitive boys we have in the world growing up to be older sensitive men? What program are we putting them on that pushing or moulds them into being something they weren’t? The ‘school of hard knocks’ perhaps.
    So we are saying ‘tenderness’ is a way of being, a way of being that men naturally are. So if men actually go and speak about how they are feeling, as honestly as they can, then this is a gateway to ‘that’ tenderness. I have certainly found a strength in simply doing my best to speak about what I am feeling. I don’t mean putting on a front and speaking about something superficial. I mean genuinely speaking about how things feel when they are said to you or when you say them. Looking at the way I work and the way I am with the children and speaking about things that are ‘coming’ up around these. It may be a jump for some men to relate directly to being ‘tender’ but it is just being willing to speak about the feelings that are actually there for us. Yes women can support that but men need to start to speak as well. It is natural for men to feel things, we have a very natural deep sensitivity. It’s not a weakness but for me a definite strength and much around me has truly changed because I have committed to saying what I feel in any moment, being tender. Thank you again Nicole.

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    • Jennifer Smith says: August 23, 2015 at 8:08 AM

      So true what you have shared Ray. I work with a lot of older men and can very clearly see how absolutely tender and sensitive they are and how gorgeous this is, but they would not see that in themselves. I can feel from what you have shared how supportive it can be to just gently encourage them to share how they feel and what’s going on for them. That gives them the opportunity for them to see their own sensitivity and realise that it’s not a weakness.

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  • Jade Jamieson says: May 16, 2015 at 8:07 PM

    What a beautiful blog that celebrates the true tenderness and beauty of men. How blessed we are to be inspired by Serge Benhayon who has shown that it is possible for not only women but men to reconnect to their tenderness by living from the fullness of their heart.

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  • Joshua Campbell says: May 16, 2015 at 1:31 AM

    I know as a man expressing my true tenderness is innately the most natural and amazing way to live.

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    • Michael Kremer says: August 24, 2015 at 2:46 PM

      So true Joshua. From childhood on I felt deep within that all this playing rough, rivaling and competing that men are expected to live in our modern society was simply not me. In gentleness and love there is so much more power than in this mock up roughness, because gentleness and love bring out what we truly are and this is a strength that nothing can compete with nor does it need or ask for any comparison at all. Strength in stillness.

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  • Harrison White says: May 14, 2015 at 7:52 PM

    It is exquisite to express true tenderness as a man. With no fear of rejection and the the knowing that the quality that we are expressing in, is truly tender and has a warmth and radiance from our heart. That is truly powerful. Its very different from being soft. Expressing tenderness is knowing that the quality of what you are is radiating out and being felt by others.

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    • Benkt van Haastrecht says: January 24, 2016 at 1:03 AM

      I do fully agree with what you share Harrison, thank you for describing it so clearly.

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  • Christine says: May 14, 2015 at 6:00 AM

    Reading your blog Nicole brought up sadness in me – the way men have felt they need to be to fit into society, to be accepted. It is lovely to feel reading the comments that men want it to be different. It’s great men now have the inspiration many men, including Serge, Curtis and Michael Benhayon to show them to be gentle is not saying you are weak or powerless. Thank you for sharing your experience of men being in their tenderness.

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  • Thomas Scott says: May 5, 2015 at 5:40 AM

    The game is up so to speak, men are very tender and we feel everything, and are experts at not showing that to others.
    Reading your blog I started to feel very exposed and raw, feeling how it would be to allow others to see my exquisite gentle tender self all of the time. Thank you Nicole for sharing how men really are, underneath all our protection and hurts, there is a tender, powerful glory.

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  • Lieke van Haastrecht says: May 3, 2015 at 12:27 PM

    I agree Nicole, I have experienced a mans true tenderness and it is for sure how men should be allowed, nurtured and supported to be in society.

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  • Susan Lee says: April 27, 2015 at 2:06 AM

    What a glorious blog Nichole. It is beautiful to be able to feel the tenderness in men and by so doing we offer them an opportunity to touch this place in themselves. For so long the world has only offered men the image of being ‘tough and manly’ and Serge Benhayon has changed all this by allowing us to see and feel the power and love of a man who is tender.

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  • Annelies van Haastrecht says: April 23, 2015 at 3:14 PM

    You only have to look at a baby boy, the absolute tenderness is the same as in baby girls. They don’t hold back this beautiful quality. You can see it in every man it is there. I completely agree Nicole it is exquisite to feel when men express their true tenderness. There is such a strenght in being tender for men and women.

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    • Debra Douglas says: August 21, 2015 at 6:03 PM

      Yes Annelies, when I look at my grandson who is 5, he is the gentlest most tender little person ever.

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  • Felix Schumacher says: April 18, 2015 at 5:02 AM

    This is exactly what we men need, Nicole. Being encouraged to express our tenderness equally. And we are encouraged by every person that does express so. Thank you Serge Benhayon and Doug and Michael and Martin and… Thank God there are so many people coming to my mind who live and express like that!

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  • Fiona Lotherington says: April 11, 2015 at 7:03 PM

    Anyone who has seen a dad with his young daughter will know the tenderness that is in men. It seems like men have given up on being able to show tenderness and women have stopped looking for it. The more I notice it, the more I can see it in all men, as I meet people at work or pass them on the escalator. And if we notice it, they feel it and maybe feel that it is ok to show their tenderness in public.

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    • Jennifer Smith says: August 23, 2015 at 8:00 AM

      I love seeing men with their children, There is such an honesty there in how they are with them. This shows that it is never lost and always within and it’s a matter of re-connecting to this not just when they are with children.

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  • Jaime Foley says: April 5, 2015 at 5:48 AM

    Men are busting at the seems to really let their tenderness out, you can see it in so many, society has become so matesy that there seems to be no room for these men. I know now when I am offered help from a man I accept the help, where I would never dreamed of letting this happen a few years ago…

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  • Janne Price says: April 3, 2015 at 11:33 AM

    Thank you Nicole. It is great to see that men can show and live their tenderness and not be considered ‘sissies’. There is support for them to unravel the hardness that has built up in their bodies since childhood and they have such a great role model in Serge Benhayon!

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  • Marika says: March 29, 2015 at 6:29 AM

    Love what you have both expressed here Monica & Rachel…recently I was watching two men hug each other, but what was so beautiful to witness in their expression was how tender they were with each other. You often see men give hugs of toughness that are quick and patting on the back style. But to feel two men embrace each other gently without any sexual confusion, but just openly expressing their tenderness was so healing and so refreshing – more of this in the world please.

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  • Marika says: March 29, 2015 at 6:19 AM

    Since meeting Serge Benhayon I have very much appreciated the many beautiful qualities that a man in his fullness feels like…and as a woman feeling the expression of tenderness from men is exquisite and so attractive.

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  • Paul Moses says: March 25, 2015 at 4:01 PM

    Thank you Nicole for sharing theses beautiful words, for a man to feel himself as tender and to live in tenderness is the gateway to true intimacy.

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  • Lynda Marinelli says: March 23, 2015 at 8:01 AM

    Nicole what you say here is very true. “To all the men in the world; you shine equally as do we all, let your tenderness be seen and felt – for you are totally magnificent”. What an amazing experience to feel the tenderness of a man.

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  • Leonne Sharkey says: March 18, 2015 at 9:16 PM

    Thank you Nicole. Knowing just how sweet and tender men are at the core makes so many things seem absolutely unbelievable. We are living in a society where men go to war, rape, assault and abuse. It is absolute madness and anything but normal. The more I connect to the inherently sweet and loving nature of all men the more I see how abhorrent it is that we condition them to shut down.

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  • Sandra Williamson says: March 12, 2015 at 7:58 AM

    With reading your article Nicole, I’m inspired to start at the point of knowing that all men are innately tender. Knowing this I can hold the tenderness they truly are and not let other behaviours cloud my awareness and the truth of their tenderness.

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  • Lieke van Haastrecht says: March 8, 2015 at 2:55 PM

    Well, said Nicole. I was just pondering while reading your blog that boys are raised to be strong, tough, hard – ‘a man’ – but then later in relationships some women find it hard to talk with their male partner because they are so not into talking about feelings and being tender with each other, because that is not what society is telling men are like. It is like if we would start raising boys to stay in their natural tenderness that is so there when they are young this whole issue would not be there!

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    • Karen Muntelwit says: March 11, 2015 at 6:51 AM

      I agree Lieke. If we start raising our sons to stay with their natural tenderness then we allow them to grow up to be men able to express this tenderness.

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  • Annelies van Haastrecht says: March 7, 2015 at 7:29 AM

    Tenderness is an amazing quality we all innately have, why is it seen as weak for men, why the hardening. To be around men who live their tenderness is beautiful and a great inspiration to be with. For boys at school the pressure of the peer group is huge and having a reflection of men living their tenderness is so needed so they can feel this is what a real man is, having the power of being tender.

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  • Patricia Darwish says: March 7, 2015 at 6:22 AM

    To all the men out there please let your tenderness shine, the world is in such need of your amazingness.

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  • Greg Hall says: March 5, 2015 at 9:16 PM

    Having spent the day on the bustling streets of Hoi An, I experienced an example of many men going about their days in this quality of tenderness : buzzing about on scooters or bicycles, or up and down the river in their boats they moved amongst one another without an ounce of aggression or competition, their bodies unhardened by these tensions that men in the western world typically endure.

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  • Mary Adler says: March 2, 2015 at 4:12 PM

    If we all allowed ourselves to live with our innate tenderness the planet would breathe a sigh of relief as the aggression and tensions of the world would melt away.

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  • Mick Scheenhouwer says: February 27, 2015 at 6:02 AM

    At a time in my life I too believed that to be tender was about being soft or not a man, maybe a bit girlie but I have now come to feel that tenderness has always been there and I have lived in such a way as to keep that tenderness shut down and hidden from the world and myself. These days, as I allow this tenderness to be exposed a little more every day, I can feel the true power in being a man in the fullness of my tenderness.

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    • Marika says: March 29, 2015 at 6:21 AM

      Yes it’s the opposite of what we may have thought Mick…women actually find tenderness in a man very attractive and powerful. The macho bravado is so unappealing and so not who men truly are.

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  • Natalie Hawthorne says: February 26, 2015 at 5:56 PM

    More TENDERNESS – for Tenderness is deeply needed to be brought to the table and openly discusssed. Such a very important topic – seeing the transition of the men I know that have decided that they can be tender is absolutely beautiful to watch, connect and be with. More TENDERNESS for all …

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  • Monika Rietveld says: February 26, 2015 at 2:45 PM

    Beautiful Nicole, I agree the world is not where it can be without men allowing themselves to be the tender, sensitive and delicate human beings they are. I see it in young men growing up: a huge struggle to not let their tenderness be seen and felt anymore to belong to ‘the group’. We need (more) living examples of men living how powerful it is to be tender.

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  • Amelia Stephens says: February 25, 2015 at 6:15 AM

    Seeing and supporting this tenderness in men is so important, and a key part of Men’s health I feel. Depression, suicide and heart disease are huge issues for men in particular. Addressing that they do feel, and it is ok to show what they feel is so important in opening up a true conversation and starting to heal.

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  • Stephen G says: February 25, 2015 at 3:00 AM

    I had the experience of expressing tenderness with some young children today and there was a moment with one girl in particular who shared some news, it was beautiful to see her reaction to me being gentle and tender with her and I could feel the joy in that connection. It makes me consider how important it is that I don’t give in to the messages that are given that men are to be tough and hard. Where is the joy in that?

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    • Amelia Stephens says: February 25, 2015 at 6:16 AM

      So true Stephen – men are robbed of so much joy by feeling they need to be hard or tough. Women do this too, but it is definitely more ingrained in our society for men.

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  • Benkt van Haastrecht says: February 25, 2015 at 2:57 AM

    I find your blog very beautiful, I am very greatful that I have got the support and inspiration from Serge, Michael and Curtis Benhayon. To live with this tenderness everyday, not always but it’s a great foundation to come back to.

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  • Jacqueline McFadden says: February 24, 2015 at 3:50 PM

    To all the men in the world; you shine equally as do we all, let your tenderness be seen and felt, for you are all truly magnificent. I read this Nicola and felt you were expressing this for all women as we all get the blessing when men express their innate tenderness.

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  • Mike Stevenson says: February 1, 2015 at 12:55 AM

    If all men of the world showed their true tenderness, we would live in a world of love and harmony. Peace would reign across all nations.

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  • Kathie Johnson says: January 30, 2015 at 3:26 AM

    ‘To all the men in the world; you shine equally as do we all, let your tenderness be seen and felt… for you are all truly magnificent.’

    Thank you for expressing this and supporting me in acknowledging this tenderness when I see it and feel it

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  • Lorraine Wellman says: January 26, 2015 at 4:37 PM

    A man expressing from his tenderness feels exquisite, as it likewise feels for ourselves to express with that same tenderness. Tenderness feels like it melts me…bring it back to humanity and our world I say, how different that would feel.

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  • Rachel Murtagh says: December 1, 2014 at 3:58 PM

    Yes this is true Rebecca. We also rob ourselves as women when we suppress and ignore our own tenderness and as a result everyone looses out. We don’t get shown when young that’s its normal for us to be this way and to honour this part of ourselves. It is from being tender that we get to develop energetic awareness and can develop a tremendous amount of understanding of what is happening around us. Being tender is a gift we can give ourselves everyday and rather than being weak it provides a strength and power. It’s like our spinach to Popeye. It’s sad that we are told to toughen up from very little because that’s how the world is. What if the world allowed us to be the tender and sensitive beings we really are, we would operate very differently in the world of work and in domestic life?

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    • Christoph Schnelle says: March 3, 2016 at 8:10 AM

      To toughen up is a substitute for when we have lost our awareness of our power. We then use force on ourselves and others. Even extreme force is far less powerful than expressed, loving power itself.

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  • Rebecca Turner says: November 26, 2014 at 4:18 PM

    “To suppress and ignore this tenderness is robbing society of a true beauty, unlike any other.” So true Nicole. We all rob society of true beauty when we choose anything less than our own true tenderness. And we also rob ourselves of this.

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  • Mike Stevenson says: November 23, 2014 at 1:05 AM

    Nicole. Have read your blog again, it not only shows me the quality of being tender, but also caring, not only for me, but for my wife, family and friends.

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  • Jessica Williams says: November 17, 2014 at 8:02 AM

    Awesome blog Nicole – it is super important to address this, allowing men to be truly tender and what this would mean for society, and you have started the conversation beautifully

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  • David Nicholson says: November 8, 2014 at 6:38 PM

    Nicole it was really enjoyable to read your blog. Just reading or saying the word tenderness of people helps my whole body to relax and let go. Looking back I can see no-one said don’t be tender with words but instead there were many times where I was asked to do things or be a certain way that was not tender and so it was only a matter of time before being tender didn’t fit into the person I thought I needed to be. It’s great to start to re-connect to tenderness.

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    • Golnaz Shariatzadeh says: November 18, 2014 at 7:56 AM

      It is such a joy hearing you as a man see the pressure that has been put on you to toughen up, decide to not play ball with it and to claim back your tenderness. It is both a joy because of the freedom that I can feel this brings men, and also because of the pure glorious gift men offer all of us by being the men they truly are.

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  • Rachel Murtagh says: November 7, 2014 at 3:53 PM

    This is so true Nicole, “Why should women be the only ones allowed to express, to be gentle and to nurture, while men are supposed to be hard, tough, the one who is always the rock?” Knowing just how tender men naturally are and how beautifully sensitive baby boys and toddlers are it doesn’t make sense that we curb and cut their expression from the word go! Boys are not given a chance to remain sensitive and tender as they are labeled a “wuss” by their peer group, so to be accepted the majority conform and those that don’t feel that there is something wrong with them. You are right Monica when you say, “We crave the natural tenderness that men innately are – we know it and it’s time we actively support and confirm it.”

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  • Mary Adler says: November 1, 2014 at 4:56 PM

    I have observed that in a mixed class of 6 year olds that many of the boys are as, and sometimes more, tender, gentle and sensitive than the girls. So, learning to be ‘tough’ and ‘manly’ is something they subscribe to in order to fit in with, or for recognition from their role models. When a man allows himself to show his tenderness he is offering children a precious gift.

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  • Mike Stevenson says: October 18, 2014 at 7:29 PM

    Nicole. Men can be very tender, and show their gentleness. But some are very reticent to show that side of themselves.
    I have met many men who think it is not manly to show their true nature. When one asks why, invariably they cannot answer, that question. I have said to them, if you show your wife, girlfriend your real side, just watch your relationship blossom so much more.
    Universal Medicine has really help me to be more tender, and loving with my wife and myself.

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  • Mary Adler says: October 14, 2014 at 3:58 PM

    Tenderness, in men and women, is something missing in much of the world recently. True tenderness is something we all yearn for but often only share our tenderness with a very young baby. By choosing to be more tender with myself I can feel the tenderness in others.

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  • Alison Moir says: October 14, 2014 at 8:18 AM

    Thank you Nicole for writing about something we so rarely talk about in society, men connecting to their tenderness and gentleness. It is naturally there in young boys but can so often be crushed, or pushed aside with the demands that are put on them as they grow up. It is such a joy to be in the company of men who are not afraid to show their gentleness and it is something I am learning to appreciate more each day.

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  • rosanna bianchini says: October 14, 2014 at 7:12 AM

    “We all deserve to live nothing less than the tenderness that we are, men included.” This is an equality that no one seems to be fighting for but which I see as one of the most fundamental in bring real change to the world. When we all express with the natural tenderness our body knew as a baby and child the quality of our relationships – and therefore the quality of our households, societies and beyond, would be very different and feel so much more loving.

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  • Julie Matson says: October 6, 2014 at 4:38 PM

    I feel blessed to have experienced how gentle and tender a man can be and it definitely is not gender based or weak.

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    • Nicole Serafin says: January 20, 2015 at 12:56 PM

      Most definitely agree with you Julie, it is divine.

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  • Mary Adler says: October 4, 2014 at 2:00 PM

    Tenderness in a man is very powerful. There is nothing soft or weak in a man when he speaks or acts with tenderness.

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    • Christoph Schnelle says: March 3, 2016 at 8:08 AM

      Especially when a man is tender for the first time in a long time, he is very vulnerable and hence courageous.

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  • kevin McHardy says: September 30, 2014 at 2:11 PM

    Thanks Nicole, a truly wonderful article. Tenderness and gentleness is far more our natural state of being, it feels a bit odd at first but the more we allow it the more natural it becomes. The more we can live it, the more it will inspire other men to be it and who know where that might lead. To a world of less pain and violence?

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    • Jenny Hayes says: October 7, 2014 at 7:12 PM

      It’s funny how these things do feel a bit odd at first, we have disconnected to that natural essence we all share. But as you share once you reawaken the embers the fire will soon light up and it will become your every way.

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    • Mary Adler says: October 8, 2014 at 3:18 PM

      I agree Kevin. The more we live with tenderness the more it will inspire others. Every man, woman and child in the world today deserves to find their natural tenderness to share with others. Then there would be less pain and violence in the the world.

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  • Jenny Hayes says: September 27, 2014 at 6:19 PM

    To all the men in the world – you shine equally as do we all, let your tenderness be seen and felt… for you are all truly magnificent.
    This is such a confirmation for all the men of the world. It’s a joy to read, and I know every time a man is honoured and confirmed in what he is feeling, he brings more of that to himself and everyone around him.

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    • Nicole Serafin says: January 20, 2015 at 12:55 PM

      Beautifully said Jenny

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  • Nicole Serafin says: September 21, 2014 at 6:08 AM

    Such beautiful comments. Thank you everyone. It is so true how men are raised to be strong and tough, when they are not truly that at all when in their true essence. I observe young boys and watch how they are encouraged to not cry, suck it up basically, it is quite sad how as a society we have allowed this separation and behaviour to continue. We now have such amazing role models, as seen and felt in these comments, who can lead the way and reflect to all men, young and old, that we are naturally tender, gentle and loving. How blessed are we all to have these men in our lives and as role models for our children and partners.

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    • Lorraine Wellman says: January 29, 2015 at 4:37 PM

      Yes we are blessed to have men in our lives who are tender and loving, they feel gorgeous.
      Many women these days are also raised to be ‘strong and tough’, and encouraged not to cry, I know this was my reality. I have been re-learning to stay being vulnerable, tender and loving, this feels like coming back to living.

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    • Jennifer Smith says: August 23, 2015 at 7:52 AM

      One of the crazy things about this too Nicole is that when young boys are taught to ‘harden up’ it is done to protect them from the outer very harsh world, knowing that young boys are naturally super sensitive and tender. Not realising that this actually creates more harm for them and more harm for everyone, because they are not getting to know, develop and enjoy how magnificent is for everyone all round when we live exactly who we are, without question.

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  • Mike stevenson says: September 19, 2014 at 11:52 PM

    Thank you Nicole – I agree with the sentence here, “We all deserve to live nothing less than the tenderness that we are, men included.”

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    • nicole serafin says: September 24, 2014 at 8:19 PM

      Definately Mike, tenderness is not gender specific it is part of our natural expression.

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  • Natalie Read says: September 18, 2014 at 4:46 PM

    Here, here, Nicole.

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  • Otto Bathurst says: September 10, 2014 at 12:14 PM

    Thank you Nicole for your deep appreciation of the truth of men. It is a blessing for me this morning to read your words and for that part of me to be heard, waved at, celebrated and welcomed to the party.

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    • Jenny Hayes says: September 26, 2014 at 6:28 PM

      That’s what is so amazing, every time a man is truly heard and felt it confirms him further. Who doesn’t want to carry on a path where they feel amazing with each step? To know that for yourself and for others to feel and acknowledge it too is a blessing for us all.

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    • Phil Sargeant says: October 23, 2014 at 5:25 PM

      A party of truly gentle-men is my kind of party…I have found recently that I can “feel” gentle and it is glorious, all throughout my bones. But often the sticking point is allowing that gentleness to take a strong hold, as when it does it exposes me as vulnerable, as in I actually feel. It can be so instant, and tangible that it can sometimes make my skin crawl…I have shied away from this in the past in case I got hurt or seen…. But I have been asking myself why come to the party without all of me? The constant love, support and inspiration I have felt from attending Universal Medicine presentations, has encouraged me to keep bringing more of me to everything.

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      • Janet says: December 28, 2014 at 6:05 AM

        Thank you, Phil, for sharing your tenderness and vulnerability with us. It is beautiful that you have remained connected to that part of yourself, even if it is challenging at times to express it in the world. Please keep bringing those qualities out for us all to be blessed by.

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  • Elaine Arthey says: August 25, 2014 at 5:44 AM

    Yes it’s beautiful when men (or women) realise that they can be tender and strong and powerful all at the same time…it doesn’t have to be an either/or like we have been led to believe.

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    • Christoph Schnelle says: March 3, 2016 at 8:07 AM

      Tenderness IS power expressed.

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  • Rebecca Wingrave says: August 17, 2014 at 2:40 PM

    Thank you Nicole, I have felt this tenderness in men and it is truly beautiful. My partner is very tender and it is so lovely and feels so natural and ‘normal’ when he and my little boy cuddle and play in their natural gentleness and tenderness.

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  • Nicole Serafin says: August 15, 2014 at 4:59 AM

    So true Jo. We have a son and he is super gentle, tender and loving, and yes, blonde hair big blue eyes and loves to dress in our daughters bright coloured clothes and shoes, He also loves cars and trucks.
    Being a boy differs in some ways but his essence is that of the same as that which woman also has.
    Beaitiful

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  • Jo Billings says: August 14, 2014 at 10:17 PM

    Nicole, My baby brother had gorgeous gold hair which my parents didn’t cut for the first 3 years of his life. People would treat him so tenderly and say sweetly “oh what a precious little girl”…until we corrected them and then they would often react by doing something very “tough” toward him like pretending to punch him and saying “oh, a tough little guy!” This and the fact that “boy” clothes have to be drab, muddy or dark…when, in my experience, when offered a choice the boy would choose the rich beautiful colors as often as any girl (until they learn what you want them to want!) is very telling of our entrenched mindset which is oppressive to the true nature of our boys and men.

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    • Meg Nicholson says: August 26, 2015 at 2:38 AM

      Wow that really shows the extreme attitudes we have towards young girls and boys, and I agree that roughness is the total opposite of a young boys sweet tender nature.

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  • James Nicholson says: August 9, 2014 at 2:12 PM

    Thank you Nicole – for blessing me and every man with your words. As you said: “We all deserve to live nothing less than the tenderness that we are”. Even though soo much in the world tells us otherwise, when we are little boys, we cannot hide our tenderness, then we forcibly hide it, to fit in and be accepted. I too have been inspired by Serge Benhayon and Universal Medicine to return back to living a more natural tender way with myself and others, now not being afraid to show it, or seeing it as a weakness, rather as a strength.

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    • Nicole Serafin says: August 15, 2014 at 5:02 AM

      Beautiful James as are you. I have observed you blossom into the amazing tender, gentle caring man that you are today, a true reflection and inspiration for all.

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  • Nicole Serafin says: August 7, 2014 at 4:26 AM

    Beautifully expressed, and so true. Thank you

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    • Matilda Clark says: August 9, 2014 at 1:48 PM

      So sweet and purposefully put, thank you, Nicole. The more I allow myself to accept the tenderness of men the more they shine. The more they shine the more we are all served and our hardness melts away.

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      • Nicole Serafin says: August 15, 2014 at 5:01 AM

        So true Matilda. We have workmen building at our home and to observe them soften since starting here is absolutely beautiful. Simply by allowing them to be, feel met their true tenderness blossoms.

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  • Golnaz Shariatzadeh says: August 2, 2014 at 6:39 AM

    Thanks Ariana. That is a great one to consider. Is anything less than tenderness abuse? Just as is anything less than love abuse. It is awesome that more and more men are embracing their tenderness and are also expressing it in public and amongst other men. Yes the tide started with Serge Benhayon, Michael Benhayon and Curtis Benhayon, and now many many other men have been embracing their tenderness. It is glorious.

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    • Jonathan Stewart says: August 22, 2014 at 6:06 AM

      So true Golnaz, for me “the tide started with Serge Benhayon, Michael Benhayon and Curtis Benhayon.” They as well as many other men are such an amazing inspiration and support for me and many other men with showing that there is another way to that which society has, and still does, present. Personally I have found a huge liberation by connecting to my innate tenderness and fragility. I now no longer feel the need to protect and defend myself as I did and all my relationships, from shop keepers to close friends, are more open and meaningful. It is a work in progress but I already feel stronger in myself, less tense and more relaxed.

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    • Tim Bowyer says: September 10, 2014 at 6:51 PM

      I agree Golnaz, like most of my peers tenderness was only something talked about if we were cooking steak, but now, with Serge Benhayon, Michael Benhayon and Curtis Benhayon being true examples of what tenderness in men can really be, I can see and feel the tenderness in me and also in other men I meet.

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  • Jenny Hayes says: July 31, 2014 at 2:14 PM

    As you say Nicole there is nothing as beautiful as a man expressing from his tenderness. It is a shame that we have diluted this expression over the growing years and that we hold men and women in different spheres of expression. We are all equally precious and full of the love and tenderness that we all deserve, and again as you say, it is great that we have role models like Serge Benhayon, Michael Benhayon and Curtis Benhayon working tirelessly to show us all that it is more than ok to express from these heartfelt places.

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    • Mary Adler says: August 28, 2014 at 2:02 PM

      Well said Jenny. A man expressing from his tenderness is beautiful. I also feel that when a man expresses his tenderness this inspires women, of all ages, to choose to feel their own tenderness. Serge Benhayon, Michael Benhayon and Curtis Benhayon are amazing role models of men expressing their tenderness and when I am with them I can feel my own tenderness.

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  • Nicole Serafin says: May 22, 2014 at 4:41 AM

    The comments listed here are truly beautiful and inspiring. We have all felt a man’s true tenderness at some time in our lives, and it is this inner beauty that inspires us to nurture men in a way that is truly supportive and honouring of them in the true tenderness they are.

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    • Beverley says: October 16, 2014 at 3:56 PM

      Beautifully said Nicole. Allowing and expressing tenderness has been a beautiful learning and unfolding for me. I had always resisted it and now being open to it I feel the loving support this offers on both sides.

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  • Nicole Serafin says: May 22, 2014 at 4:39 AM

    True Anna, it is truly exquisite.

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  • Anna McCormack says: May 21, 2014 at 6:48 PM

    Nicole I agree, there is nothing more beautiful then a man expressing his true depth of tenderness and equal to the preciousness of a woman – together – exquisite!

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  • Bever says: May 11, 2014 at 11:29 PM

    A beautiful sharing Nicole. In tenderness there is great strength and so beautiful to feel in another.

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  • jacqmcfadden04 says: May 5, 2014 at 3:54 AM

    Beautifully expressed Nicole.

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  • Nicole Serafin says: May 4, 2014 at 8:18 AM

    True Toni, when men express their tenderness it is truly beautiful.

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    • Christoph Schnelle says: April 28, 2015 at 11:50 AM

      I agree Nicole. What I am finding is just how deep my protection is from the past when I was tender and people told me in many different ways to harden up.

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      • Abby says: August 25, 2015 at 7:55 PM

        I have noticed in society and many cultures that men are assumed to be ‘tougher’ than women.

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  • Stephen says: May 3, 2014 at 10:56 PM

    Thank you Nicole. Your article is very supportive and encouraging for men to not be afraid to be tender. For that is why we are not tender. It is a fear of being seen to be weak and it is everywhere, the pressure on boys and men to act tough even though that is not who they are, they are gentle and loving.

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    • Mary Adler says: August 22, 2014 at 2:42 PM

      So true. A man sharing his tenderness and love is beautiful.

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    • Alison Moir says: September 1, 2014 at 2:08 PM

      So true Stephen there is such a belief that is instilled in boys from a young age to be tough and strong that they loose their natural tenderness and gentleness. To me there is nothing more refreshing and enjoyable to be in the company of men that honour this and are not afraid to show it.

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    • Christoph Schnelle says: June 22, 2015 at 7:35 PM

      Being tender for a man is a very big deal. First of all to accept the very idea of being tender is not so easy for me. I can express it but I am not sure what would happen if somebody would say to me “Oh, you are so tender today”, whether I would feel pleased, embarrassed or able to simply acknowledge the fact.

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      • Matts Josefsson says: June 24, 2015 at 2:48 PM

        If someone would say that I would probably blush a bit but it would nonetheless be a great thing.

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  • pinky says: May 3, 2014 at 7:25 AM

    Love your honest & beautiful sharing. Tenderness is soo beautiful to feel from another, esp. men – there’s real strength in it, real softness in a grand manner. Society seems to portray boys & men to the opposite – hard & tough from a very young age. As a baby we are naturally tender & open, & in return we receive that. What if we continued loving like that & allowing young boys (& girls) to keep expressing from that truly loving place to be seen (& not hide!). There is another way of being & that way is so beautiful.

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    • Stefanie König says: September 15, 2015 at 4:04 PM

      Reading your comment, Pinky, brings up the picture in me of the momentarily requirement to a beauty-ideal for men to be extremely muscular. But most men do not build up muscles from the work they do. So men – from a very young age on, hardened by that demand, build with extreme hardness against themselves, hard muscles that carry and therefore communicate hardness. It seems to be a great defend on the origin abusive demand on them to hide their tenderness. A visible and palpable energy, that brings women in turn to maybe a superficial adoration of a muscular men, but I am sure on a deeper level just to another protection manner, because they feel the hardness and abuse in it, wanting to avoid to be abused. So they shut down on a subtle level what again feeds the circle of staying in hardness for both, women and men. So great to break this circle and socially so deeply ingrained behaviour through becoming as tender, as we are, men and women.

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  • Dean Pirera says: May 2, 2014 at 7:47 PM

    Thank you Nicole. It touched me deeply what you wrote.

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    • Jonathan Stewart says: August 7, 2014 at 6:02 AM

      The same for me. Thank you, Nicole.

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  • Shevon Simon says: May 2, 2014 at 1:29 AM

    Thank you Nicole.

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  • Bernadette Glass says: May 1, 2014 at 11:08 AM

    Another bottler Nicole Serafin! Your sensitive reflections are a true service to us all and call us to feel more deeply into the extraordinary of the ordinary everyday. This post is no exception. Thank you.

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  • Toni Steenson says: May 1, 2014 at 11:02 AM

    I agree, a man in his tenderness is very power-full and it is all our responsibility to nurture and encourage this way of being in our men. Everywhere we look there are the images and ideals of who men are supposed to be, being pushed on our young boys and men. We all lose under this current way of viewing how men/boys should be. When a man, boy or teen are allowed to be their natural and tender selves they offer so much strength, support and inspiration to their families and all those around them, it’s very beautiful to watch and be a part of.

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    • Kelly Zarb says: March 10, 2015 at 9:57 PM

      I totally agree with what you have expressed Toni. Not only are the men, and young boys missing out on sharing their truly beautiful tenderness but we as a community are too. Its such a wonderful thing to see a man or young boy share their innate tenderness and strength without feeling of hesitation or judgement. Simply magical.

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    • Ester says: March 21, 2015 at 1:52 PM

      Yes I agree Toni – for me the main thing is not to use the images and ideals of who men are supposed to be!!!! We as mothers are asked to do so because it is us who can start doing so immediately.

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    • Sandra Henden says: April 7, 2015 at 2:00 AM

      That’s lovely Mary, what an honour to be sitting next to a man like that and great that you recognised these qualities in him, as of course, these will be in you too, feeling safe together….
      It almost feels to me that the men in this world are waiting for permission from women to allow them to be their true selves and come out from behind their hard exterior and breath and sigh of relief. And what a glorious world it WILL be when men and women are both living as their true selves. It is time that we, as women, connect and live from our essence which is tender, gentle and graceful, so we can offer that same reflection to all those around us, including men, allowing them to feel those same innate qualities.

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    • nb says: May 3, 2015 at 8:54 AM

      Yes Toni I have felt this tenderness working with young adolescent boys and the support they provide their peers is phenomenal when they are allowed to just be. There is not an air of comparison or the need to take the lead BUT a humbleness that shows everyone the quality in which others can engage in.

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    • Amina Tumi says: August 20, 2015 at 2:43 PM

      I agree Mary, Men and Women are equally as tender. Hearing your experience I can feel how many men naturally hold this tenderness but are not aware how normal it is and how this is in fact them so there is a slight uncertainty to whether they can express in this way and be accepted. Men have such an enormous amount of natural playfulness to bring to this world with their tenderness and it really is exquisite to witness.

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    • Angela Perin says: August 26, 2015 at 9:18 AM

      Great point here Toni about responsibility. To me, when we are being who we naturally are – which absolutely includes honouring being tender and fragile (both men and women), – this is true responsibility, and by being responsible for ourselves in this way, we reflect to others that they too have the opportunity to make the choice to be who they naturally are.

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    • Sandra Henden says: October 16, 2015 at 4:39 PM

      I agree Mary, living as men AND women connected, and living from our innate tenderness would be like coming home, safe in the knowledge that we were once again living in our wholeness, as One. Now wouldn’t that be beautiful.

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