Print 🖨 PDF 📄 eBook 📱I am going to share my personal experience of my unfolding relationship with my sexuality as a woman – from the experience of using my body and sex in a way that held me forever running in circles, to now, as I re-learn that I am indeed a woman with choice. From my very first experience of having sex, I went about this not really wanting it to occur, but not knowing how to ask for anything different. I remember saying to my boyfriend at the time, ‘Whatever happens, I don’t want to have sex with you tonight’. Now I have lost count of how many times I have said this in my life, still with the experience of sex occurring. This is in no way to blame the men I refer to – in fact it comes with the realisation that this choice has been mine all along. As much as I have played victim and felt like I have been used, I can now see far beyond this – and what a vision this is. What I can see is that yes, it has been a two way street (as it takes two ...