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Coffee Tasting - Feeling the Impact
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Coffee Tasting – Feeling the Impact

By Natalie Hawthorne · On April 11, 2014

About a year ago, when I first started working as the general manager in a deli/café, I decided I needed to do a coffee tasting. Coffee is a huge part of the business and as I hadn’t had any coffee for at least 4-5 years, I wanted to get an understanding of what it is that we sell. So I tried a decaf espresso, which was full-on.

FROM HIDEOUS TO REALLY TASTY

I hated it. Espresso, which is pure and neat in its extraction of the coffee, has nothing to disguise it and my reaction was immediate, as if my taste buds were saying to me: “What are you doing – are you crazy? This is hideous!”.

I then tried the espresso with some soya milk and this was not so invasive but still full on… I only managed to have a couple of sips of each and that was it. Then, an hour later, a headache appeared and my stomach started to feel weird.

The one thing that really shocked me though was the quick change from “What the heck are you doing, this is hideous” to (after a disguised, milky, soya flat white and a few sips of that) going “Hmmm… this is actually really tasty”.

How quickly it started to grow on me! It reminded me of when I first started to drink alcohol and started smoking. They were both naturally hideous and my body didn’t want to do either, but I overrode what I really felt so I could fit in, be accepted and look cool!

UPPING THE COFFEE ANTE – I GET SEDUCED…

My ‘romance’ with coffee didn’t end there – recently I had to choose a new blend of coffee for our customers.

So the coffee tasting began… I was having a look at the crèma, which looked perfect, and the smell was alive with lots of different scents – liquorice, almond and chocolate jumped out at me!

At that point I was slowly getting seduced all over again and I thought: “I’ll try it – I need to know what the coffee I have chosen for the deli tastes like.” Isn’t it interesting how the mind will quickly justify an action to make it OK to do! This was the start of the override again…

There were two types of blends so I had a couple of sips of each espresso and then another couple of sips of two flat whites.

By the end of the second espresso I could start to feel the change in my body… and by the end of the second flat white I was starting to like it, enjoying the flavours… I stopped there, knowing which blend was going to work best for the deli and the customers…

FEELING THE IMPACT OF COFFEE – THE HARD WAY

But for me, it was too late – by the end of the second flat white I was really starting to feel ‘off the wall’ and super-racy! “Oh my goodness! What have I just done?!” I’m thinking. It felt like I was on drugs big time… really bad speed, or something like that! My head felt really strange – like it was going to pop or explode. My heart was going super-fast, and I was completely off the wall in my behaviour – all the deli assistants were laughing at me, as they could all see the change in me.

It lasted for quite some time – we’d started the coffee tasting at 10.30am and I was still feeling traces of it at 8pm that night – and the following two days I had these really intense, full-on headaches that were hideous. I could see how people can get hooked – if I’d had another coffee, all those symptoms would have disappeared instantly.

This week I had another trip to the roastery, but this time I decided that I would spit the tasting – my body thanked me for this!

I LOVE MAKING COFFEES, BUT WHY WOULD I BE ANYTHING ELSE BUT ME?

I started making coffees when I was 15. I love making coffees, and I still do.

I love the smell of coffee and I still do, but I don’t like what it does to my body so I don’t drink it any more. It’s like some foods and how they taste and what they do to my body: I have decided to leave them out of my diet because I don’t like how I feel after I’ve eaten them, even if they taste amazing at the time – it’s not worth it!

However, this most recent coffee tasting experience really confirmed for me that I just don’t want to feel like that anymore. It also confirmed for me what happens when I let my mind override and ‘explain away’ what I’m really feeling in my body and know is right for me.

I feel so AMAZING when I’m just me – without anything else influencing me – and I know now: NOTHING ELSE is acceptable!

I’m at a point in my life where what I have chosen is SERIOUSLY AWESOME and I feel SERIOUSLY AMAZING for it. I feel so clear, on to it, light and consistent. I have so much respect for my body and myself that I am not prepared to compromise any more.

Inspired by the Awesome work of Serge Benhayon and Universal Medicine.

By Natalie Hawthorne, London, UK

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Natalie Hawthorne

Living right in the heart of London with humanity and loving it, running a cafe/deli in Mayfair. This is where I get to enjoy some of my favourite things in life - delicious food and people. Any spare time I like painting, photography, dancing and just recently dabbled in some singing which I absolutely loved! Haven't tried doing them all at once thou!

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832 Comments

  • Melinda Knights says: September 30, 2020 at 2:17 pm

    Overeating must be one of the most frequent ways we override our body.

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  • Leigh says: December 28, 2019 at 5:06 am

    I have never drunk coffee, nor tea for that matter but I have had my vices that I know aren’t good for me, still do in some forms. Energetically there’s a disturbance in order for me to accept and like the taste of something that isn’t supportive physically. I can’t stop a certain food or a behaviour until I address the underlying energy.

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  • Greg Barnes says: December 13, 2019 at 5:51 am

    Being open to feel our bodies, changes everything in our life, and the ensuing effects that take place can then be put into a True relationship to our health and healing as you have shared Natalie.

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  • Helen Elliott says: April 16, 2019 at 5:07 pm

    It is amazing how willing we can be to override our body’s clear communication about certain toxins that we are tempted to eat or drink but the more we are willing to listen the more it becomes clear that it is not worth sacrificing feeling awesome for a quick taste fix with unpleasant consequences for us and those around us.

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  • LE says: March 16, 2019 at 7:53 am

    Natalie this is such great blog exposing the not so good and wonderful side of coffee, blogs like these need to be more in the public eye for so many people in our society are addicted and think that it is normal.

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  • LE says: February 28, 2019 at 7:33 am

    Shocking how caffeine has been incorporated into the fitness industry, as in its now quite normal to have coffee before and after training.

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    • Alexis Stewart says: July 9, 2019 at 5:56 am

      It was a revelation for me to understand that when I used to have a mega latte after a gym class that this speedy hit from the caffeine combined with the mellowed out feeling of having exercised was a specific altered state that I was wanting. A kind of bombed out mellow feeling with a kick. All perfectly legal and because of that no one bats an eyelid. And also because I was so used to taking my body up and down, that what I was doing never really registered but if I was to do that now I would feel like I was on drugs, hang on a minute, I would be, just legal ones!

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  • Steve Matson says: February 15, 2019 at 3:29 pm

    When we stop any addiction, we have put on/in our bodies and have overridden the bodies first reaction, could it be the bodies painful withdrawal is an amplified reminder of what it told us in the first place?

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  • Ariana says: January 20, 2019 at 7:47 am

    When I stopped drinking tea and coffee I was sick for two weeks as the toxins left my body, I swore I’d never drink them again and here I am 25 years later, very grateful for my choices to follow through on that. I’ve never even been tempted to drink them since.

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  • Ingrid Ward says: January 8, 2019 at 4:44 am

    I can remember experiencing the same ill effects when I stopped eating sugar. I was incredibly ‘ill’ for six weeks as decades of accumulated toxins poured out of my body. It was shocking to feel but at the same time it made so much sense; the toxins we feed our body, whether it be food, drink or chemical substances do build up, as our bodies are simply not equipped to deal with them. Six weeks on I began to feel so much more alive and energetic than I had ever felt in my life, so to continue to live sugar free was a no brainer, as the saying goes.

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  • Ingrid Ward says: January 8, 2019 at 4:36 am

    I gave up drinking coffee while going through menopause, as each time I drank some my heart felt like it was going to jump out of my chest. So, I changed to decaf and had no further heart jumping issues, until one day within 10 minutes of finishing a cup in a local café I started to feel the old symptoms arise. I was shocked to say the least, until I realised that I had not been given a cup of decaf coffee but an ordinary caffeine filled one. A most unpleasant experience but at the same time a great confirmation of the ill effects of coffee on my body, and the last time I ever drank any sort of coffee, decaf included.

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  • Sandra Vicary says: December 24, 2018 at 8:07 am

    Having cut foods such as coffee and chocolate out of the diet and not having them for some time, is really a shock to the system if they are then introduced some years later, as you so clearly experienced Natalie. When the body is used to a clean simple and light diet, it becomes very quick to send signals to tell us something is not right when a food or substance that is no longer eaten or drunk is reintroduced. And it is this clarity that enables us to feel so much more, on so many levels.

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  • jennym says: November 26, 2018 at 5:40 am

    It is so true how we can find exactly the right flavour to hide and override the bodies natural knowing and wisdom.

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  • Annelies van Haastrecht says: November 22, 2018 at 2:57 am

    When we start to acknowledge that our body is a vehicle of expression, to express who we are, what we put in starts to change too. We all know coffee can be tasty in our mouth but what does it do with the quality we want to live in and the effects is has on our sensitive body.

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  • Monika says: November 6, 2018 at 4:14 am

    Our body has actually all the wisdom we need. Some things might seem a great idea, might look and taste good, but what they actually do to the body is not supporting, This can be food, drinks, substances but also behaviors and thoughts. The world would be a different place if we all honored and treasured our body.

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  • Monika Rietveld says: November 6, 2018 at 4:11 am

    Our mind is more than willing to compromise the body and to close our hearts, just as it is super quick and easy in justifying an action where the body actually says ‘no, please, don’t do that. And the more we have made these choices the more difficult it is to hear the voice of the body loud and clear, although if we want to we can always start to listen again.

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  • jennym says: November 4, 2018 at 8:07 pm

    There are so many ways to be seduced in life textures, tastes, smells, visuals and sounds and yet the being wants to experience and experience life in its many variations.

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  • Christoph Schnelle says: November 3, 2018 at 9:40 am

    One of the best ways to permanently have more energy in our life is not to have any caffeine and to live a lifestyle that makes this possible – the transition period is not easy but the energy levels are worth it.

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    • Natalie Hawthorne says: November 13, 2018 at 12:37 am

      I agree Christoph, it certainly is a process of being open and willing to feel and explore a different way, and when we choose to be all of who we are then Boom with out fail we are full of vitality and joy.

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  • Elizabeth Dolan says: October 25, 2018 at 10:45 pm

    When we are stressed we tend to drink coffee but that only serves to make us even more stressed. What is required in those times is to allow ourselves to be still rather than racy.

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  • Alexis Stewart says: October 20, 2018 at 4:24 pm

    I have never ever considered the effect of caffeine on those around us until today. We all know that when someone lights up a cigarette, that we all inhale the smoke but we don’t discuss the effect of a person’s caffeine intake on those around them. Ok, so it’s not quite the same, as in those around a coffee drinker don’t somehow imbibe caffeine too but whilst I sat with someone today, who had had a few coffees, I was very aware that it felt quite an assault on my body, I felt energetically bombarded by the intensity that they were speaking with!

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  • Lorraine Wellman says: October 17, 2018 at 6:55 pm

    When we have a foundation of love in our body, it is easier to listen to our body and honour what it is telling us. Thank you for sharing how your body was with, and then without coffee, our body is so wise.

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    • Natalie Hawthorne says: November 20, 2018 at 12:42 am

      Correct Lorraine our bodies are very wise and when we surrender to it and let go what it is communicating to us is gold.

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  • Danna Elmalah says: October 14, 2018 at 12:26 am

    What a gorgeous example of how certain food and drinks have a negative effect on us. Which we one day will no longer take based on how we feel from it more than its pleasant taste.

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  • Shami says: October 12, 2018 at 7:49 am

    What I love about this writing, is how sensitive your body was to the caffeine, because you allowed it to be so.

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    • Natalie Hawthorne says: October 20, 2018 at 3:14 am

      Correct Shami, it has always been sensitive but going through the motions of life and growing up I shut down that sensitivity. So it has been a process of letting go and through it I am able to feel the things that are not supporting me also.

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  • HM says: October 5, 2018 at 12:43 am

    Thanks for sharing this – I dont think we appreciate as a society the extent to which we need coffee. It has become an industry that is like wine – where people seek the best. And are totally hooked. In fact, it can be seen as a hangover cure to lots of wine the night before, It goes to show how we can get really sucked into things and addicted.

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  • Natalie Hawthorne says: October 4, 2018 at 3:40 am

    It can be really intense and full on when we stop taking a poison that we have been drowning ourselves in. To be able to come to the surface and breath our own breath again instead of the influence of the poison feels em-powering and life changing not only on a physical but also on an energetic level as well.

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  • Fiona Cochran says: October 2, 2018 at 3:47 pm

    The smell and atmosphere in coffee shops is very alluring, it goes with dark chocolate and beautifully presented pattisseries it’s no wonder that we are drawn to the drink. The sad thing is it is a drug like any other which took me years to finally give up.

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  • Carola Woods says: October 2, 2018 at 5:20 am

    A great exposure of how we so quickly normalise what is not true for us when we override and dishonour the truth we initially feel. And so, with all that is abusive in this world, how we are with ourselves and what we have allowed to be normalised, what is so beautifully shared and offered here is the way we can restore a loving and honouring way of being and living for ourselves and together through honoring our truth, the truth we feel in our bodies.

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    • Christoph Schnelle says: November 3, 2018 at 9:41 am

      Very good point. We numb part of our experience so that we can then enjoy that sharpness of the kick and the raciness of the experience rather than feel it as a big disruption for the body.

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    • Alexis Stewart says: July 9, 2019 at 6:00 am

      Carola I love your use of the word ‘restore’ when you talk about ‘restoring a loving and honouring way of being’ because I feel it’s so supportive for us to remember that we have all lived this way before and therefore it is simply a matter of ‘when’ we return and not ‘if’.

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  • Greg Barnes says: October 1, 2018 at 6:48 pm

    The worst drug for our bodies is the way our spirit controls us so we need to have the ‘off the wall in my behaviours’ episodes and raciness with no physical drugs needed just the manifestation from our spirit, which feels absolutely terrible in the body creating some of the worst hang-over ever.

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  • Meg says: September 17, 2018 at 1:57 am

    I have been making a lot of coffees at work recently (I haven’t tried it because I know I’d also be very unwell!!) and it’s something I really enjoy, but I can really feel the seduction of coffee, the rich smell and the the creaminess – you can a 100% tell it’s a drug. It feels amazing when we begin to put the quality we feel within us above our desires for food or drink that may alter that quality.

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    • Monika Rietveld says: November 6, 2018 at 4:17 am

      I love and agree with your suggestion ‘to begin to put the quality we feel within us above our desires for food or drink that may alter that quality.’

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    • Natalie Hawthorne says: November 27, 2018 at 10:51 pm

      I agree Meg it sure is super cool when you come to a point within yourself where you know that the flavours, textures and deliciousness of certain things are just simply not worth it any more.

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  • Melinda Knights says: September 5, 2018 at 6:53 pm

    So many people don’t have a connection to how amazing they are within, so reaching for foods, drinks or experiences to bring a sense of stimulation, distraction, excitement, etc, is a way to fill the void of not being connected to ourselves. Once we reconnect to our essence and feel who we are again there is nothing outside of ourselves that can be greater than the feeling of who we are, so letting go of anything that is harmful or not supporting us becomes much easier, we just cannot help loving ourselves. That’s definitely been my experience.

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    • Natalie Hawthorne says: October 9, 2018 at 7:48 pm

      Yes that is what I have found Melinda, it becomes a lot easier when we are coming from a place of truly loving ourselves and experimenting and listening to how our body responds to things. Making a loving choice from here and honouring what the body is communicating to us.

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    • Christoph Schnelle says: November 3, 2018 at 9:42 am

      We can still be tempted for a long time whenever we feel low but gradually raise our minimum standard so we are damaging ourselves less and less in the process.

      Reply
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