Recently I expressed these words in a letter to my three grown children as their mother and friend, after I completed Level 2 Esoteric Healing course with one son and then Level 3 Esoteric Healing Course by myself. It felt like a wonderful opportunity to heal childhood hurts at the source. I now feel to share this letter to express publicly the awesome healing that is possible for all of us if we choose it.
A Letter To My Children …
I feel that I did not reflect lovingly to any of you, my three children, how to BE in your fullness, allowing your soul to connect to you as you lived and did things every day.
I was very good at doing things with you and for you; and also for many other people and or worthy causes as well. My focus on ‘doing things’ that I gave you unfortunately came with an energy that was full of my un-cleared hurts and needs as I tried to be the perfect mum and friend; to be the best person as a Christian, doing my bit to change the world; to make the world a better place.
In recent years I have found and chosen a new way of living. I have done much soul searching and work on myself to remove layers and layers of hurts and issues that had formed me as a person throughout my life. I had chosen to take on board many influences from:
- my own parents
- catholic church doctrines
- society’s attitudes
- cultural influences.
There were also many other attitudes and ideals that I chose to adopt from many other external sources from the time I was a little girl – who then grew to be an adult and a mature woman. Many of these influences were strongly filtered to be considered appropriate for me to believe in and follow in my decisions in how I lived my life.
Now I know that I have had the truth inside me all along.
No one told me that; yet I also chose not to feel that for myself either. It has taken me quite some time to develop my awareness again of how I actually feel about everything and have always been able to feel, but how I have often disregarded what I was feeling in favour of what I was thinking or what others were telling me to think.
I feel to say that by firstly having self-care, self-nurturing, and self-loving rhythms in my day as to what I eat and drink, how I sleep, talk, move, dress etc. has reawakened my awareness of the truths I know within me and always have. This is my way of getting clarity with my living choices from now on. My four beautiful grandchildren reflect this truth to me from their souls.
I am sorry that I did not reflect this way of living to you when you were little and even sooner than just recently. However, I know that I was always seeking what I can feel now.
I want to renounce my past ways of mothering and claim my new ways of being a mum and now a grandmother in my fullness.
It is not about being perfect and then feeling guilty when I slip up. Those days are gone. It is about living gently in stillness and bringing a loving presence to every moment of every day.
Sometimes I can do that and sometimes I fall back into old patterns of rush, anxiety, busy doings, frustration, judgement, comparison, feeling self-worth issues of not being good enough etc. etc. However, when that happens, I now feel it and renounce it. I let it go. I then trust that if I truly self-nurture and lovingly reflect on my daily rhythm of living I will reconnect to my loveliness within, which is my amazing self – my soul. It is an evolving way of living that never feels comfortable for very long as my soul has a constant way of inviting me to step up to another level of awareness. How awesome is that!
In this way of living I am still able to be very busy at what I choose to be involved in. In fact, it is my way of choosing to serve humanity. That is still my focus as I feel it has always been. However, it is now lived so very differently from before.
I feel that my sharing this with you in writing will resonate with you as I have sometimes expressed some of this to you in many conversations as well. It is not meant to impose a way of life on you. It is simply expressing my truth to you as I have always tried to do as your mother and friend, but it is also now to clear any past influences from me on you that were not from my fullness in my innermost or my soul . . . I feel you will feel the difference.
I hope that you can feel the loving support I am offering you now that comes no longer laced with my hurts and issues or layers of attitudes, values and ideals. I hope that you feel this release of my ‘energy’ on you as you make your own choices about your way of living.
You are amazing people. I feel your awareness and loveliness. You mean the world to me. Be gentle with yourselves. Don’t cap your joy. Your loving reflection is awesome.
With love,
Mum/Janice Mooney
Further Reading:
Good Parenting Skills
Carrot Soup for Two – a Breakfast Date with my 7 year old
There is so much freedom in cutting the tendrils of ‘being a mother’ and being the beautiful being you are.
Expressing in such transparency and openness allows the healing to occur and sets new standards with our loved ones and everyone
To me this is one of our many hurdles to over come
‘My focus on ‘doing things’ that I gave you unfortunately came with an energy that was full of my un-cleared hurts and needs as I tried to be the perfect mum and friend; to be the best person as a Christian, doing my bit to change the world; to make the world a better place.’
We ‘do’ things all the time because we feel it is the Christian thing to ‘do’ but there’s the lie, we cannot change the world unless we first change ourselves to do this we need to bring more understanding to ourselves and treat ourselves with care which grows by increments into love when we start to love ourselves then that same love spills out so that others can feel it and choose differently if they want to.
The greatest Love we can bring to anyone is the nonimposing type, the one that also lets others know where our boundaries are and how much we appreciate all they are in essence.
Doing good, looking the goods, being good as one does when we are deceived by those external influences as you have shared Janice, do not hold a candle to living the Truth as a Livingness. So we are re-parenting, re-religionising, and thus re-learning how to live Love in a society with cultural diversification as a True reflection from our essences. Then as ourselves, from a “fullness”, “innermost”, “soul” or essence we live a way that feels “awesome” every day.
This is a great celebration Janice, to feel the truth and power of the Way of the Livingness, for great it is when it is lived.
Loving how much we can learn from all we are, that’s the way forward.
We are here to be love and to share this love with all, ‘It is about living gently in stillness and bringing a loving presence to every moment of every day.’
Whatever our age in years it is never too late to appreciate all that is offered by the Ageless Wisdom.
This is Ageless Wisdom, thank you Mary, and may I add, appreciate that lived level of Livingness until our last breath.
Yes, we innately know what is true, ‘I feel to say that by firstly having self-care, self-nurturing, and self-loving rhythms in my day as to what I eat and drink, how I sleep, talk, move, dress etc. has reawakened my awareness of the truths I know within me and always have.’
We always have the possibility to re-imprint our relationships and what you offer in this loving letter to your children is the opportunity to go deeper unimpeded by past hurts. Truly a gift for all, thank you Janice.
Yes, it is always great to renounce our old ways of living, and bring in a way that is truly loving and evolving for us to return back to who we truly are, ‘I want to renounce my past ways of mothering and claim my new ways of being a mum and now a grandmother in my fullness.’
This is such a beautifully healing letter for your children, one that I am sure will be treasured by them, as I am sure you are also treasured. Our children often look at us as just their mother overlooking the fact that we are a woman first and had a life of many phases before they came into the world. When I began to see my mother for the woman she was, so many questions that were never answered, suddenly were.
A beautiful healing for Janice, and her children.
How much freer we are as mothers without our hurts and expectations getting in the way.
Yes free to be true to ourselves and allow others that freedom as well.
I wonder how many mothers in their sixties have communicated similarly to their children? Not many I suspect. What a beautiful way to accept responsibility for your previous life choices and appreciate the impact they had on your growing children. With no judgement or criticism, this leaves space for ever deepening and now truly loving relationships for you all.
“I want to renounce my past ways of mothering and claim my new ways of being a mum and now a grandmother in my fullness. ” What a precious gift this is to you, your children and your grandchildren Janice. Truly inspirational for any woman in her autumn years who may feel that her life is passing her by.
So gorgeous and inspiring what you have written to your children and shared here with us, in claiming all of you you are re -imprinting your relationship with your children, I am in the process of doing just that, with each one of my children, this then offers so much healing all around.
A women coming out of playing the role of mum and back into claiming herself as a woman is very inspiring and brings a richness for everyone.
Oh yes, The Way of The Livingness is awesome, at 64, and in fact at any age. I was 55 when I was first introduced to it and I knew instantly I had finally found the way of living that I had been searching for, for what seemed forever. Now at 68 it is my way of living and it is a way that I know I will continue to walk throughout the remainder of this life and many lives to come.
There are many, many miracles that occur during the Sacred Esoteric Healing courses that changes people and their lives forever… the workshops cannot ever be underestimated… it a blessing to receive them.
You highlight so beautifully how we really are freest when we live in connection to our Soul and living in this way is what truly reflects who we are, through which others can be inspired by.
This is a most beautiful and true love letter, a letter that was written from the inner-heart and containing not one ounce of emotion. It is a letter when received would not have presented any feelings of imposition but the offering of the truth of how life is for you now and the joy that living in this way brings you. It’s a letter that I would love to receive.
Being “gentle with your-self” is the starting point for us all on our return to being connected to our inner-most.
What an amazing person you are and committing back to Janice. It is never too late… What I have experienced is just how clever I am in choosing just how aware I want to be. I’m honestly scared ? to see the extent of the mess we are in, what I have been irresponsibly a part of and how much there is to do. I know when I choose that awareness I receive the full package. This is what I hide from – what it is I’m capable of doing.
Its just so beautiful that you have taken responsibility for your living and the ill consequences that it has produced in the past and now you are setting a true livingness that supports not only you and your family but all of mankind – thank you.
To have such absolute acceptance for one self to be able to renounce an old way and innate a new one is deeply inspiring, and very humbling.
Having the simple foundations of “self-care, self-nurturing, and self-loving rhythms in my day as to what I eat and drink, how I sleep, talk, move, dress” in your day makes a huge difference to our lives. When we don’t let the little things slip in our lives we are able to do grand things but if we don’t hold strong to our foundation it is hard to be in life and be steady.
” I now feel to share this letter to express publicly the awesome healing that is possible for all of us if we choose it. ”
This is very important for people to know and its available to everyone. Total healing is possible and available to everyone if the choice to heal is made. True healing has no conditions just the free will choice to choose healing.
“I have often disregarded what I was feeling in favour of what I was thinking” With the blossoming awareness of all we are feeling we can let go of any regrets and choose to be all that we are.
What a day it will be when such Love is the foundational way in all families right around the world. How could war struggle or torment with another even be a consideration when such love is the basis of how we raise our children?
It is so powerful to acknowledge the things we wish we had done differently without wallowing in guilt and then further imposing on our children. This letter is such a gift not just to your children but also to all who have the privilege of reading it.
Absolutely Helen. We can really ‘milk’ the whole guilt thing and make a wonderful story and drama about it if we so choose, but where does it get us? In truth nowhere, and it just ends up being loaded onto those around us. So what Janice is showing us here is empowering for all involved because of its openness and honesty, and leaves everyone free to move on without carrying the hurts of the past with them.
It is never too late to correct and reimprint our relationships with not only our loved ones, but anyone for that matter.
Incredible how a simple letter can bring so much healing to a relationship. Shows that it is all there in all relationships. All the potential and beauty of what is possible together, and it is all accessible through expression. Protection is definitely the opposite of this.
‘It is an evolving way of living that never feels comfortable for very long as my soul has a constant way of inviting me to step up to another level of awareness. How awesome is that!’ I feel your joy about this way of living, a constant movement towards becoming more of who you are, light and love embodied.
Yes Annelies, there is no time for sitting still when committing to living a life that supports us to return to who we are.
Why would we sit still when we can leave our great mark of truth in everything we do and move by?
Janice, this is a really inspiring article, it is very beautiful that you have been so open and honest with your children, what a blessing for them.
Thank you Janice, for highlighting just how powerful, healing and liberating it is for all when we renounce a way of being that does not reflect the love we are, as we free ourselves to instead make space for the light of our Soul to magnify our true way of being.
The wonderful thing that is being expressed here ( well one of them ) is that its never too late !!! we can re-imprint up until the day we die.
Your description of your way of living breaks down the belief that when we get ‘somewhere’, ie evolve, we can put our feet up and rest or retire.. “It is an evolving way of living that never feels comfortable for very long as my soul has a constant way of inviting me to step up to another level of awareness.” It has taken a while for me to get used to this continual pattern of stepping up, but these days it no longer seems too hard but instead a welcome opportunity to grow and expand as a person; to understand me just a little bit, or sometimes a lot, more.
This blog shows that we cannot truly blame our parents for anything for they in turn have been reduced by the world and its ideals and beliefs and their own upbringing which disconnects them from trusting their own inner knowing.
Thankyou for sharing your amazing letter to your children. Being open and honest and not trying to be – or show- perfection – has a way of inviting intimacy into our lives.
It is a big step for a parent to write a letter like this, claiming their imperfections and being very honest about how they feel. But this is what will bring equality between parents and kids and a deeper connection between them.
What an inspiring letter Janice. For you to be humble enough to express all the times you did not feel you were bring the true you to your children. And then your journey in now being able to feel and renounce what is not you. This is so loving – we can get caught in the trap of doing everything for our kids as being loving, but this letter knocks all that out the park – This presents absolute love.
This gives us the chance here to accept our faults and differences as learning steps along the path which will never be perfect and will at times be challenging or even quite tough. But the essence of you remains through all of the hardship as the love that you are will find a way to be expressed.
Janice this is so beautiful to express all that you are to your children and grandchildren. I was deeply moved by the love and total openness of you as a woman and mother. This is true love, where there are no conditions imposed on your children, which we can do so well as parents without even realising what we are doing. To simply reflect our loving ways of living and loving them for who they are, inspires and supports our children to also be who they are without all the impositions our daily lives can impose on us. When we live from our Soul, in a very practical daily life, in every area of our lives, it changes everything and brings true connections with our families and beyond.
Being free of pictures allows us to reflect truth and love to another, and that is the greatest gift we can offer humanity.
Thank you Janice, your letter reflects the imposition I have felt I had on others before the opportunity to heal my hurts through Universal Medicine. Without the hurts getting in the way there is a realisation of all the love there was to express, that perhaps was not before but now can be.
What a powerhouse of a mum and grandmother you’ve become. And how beautifully expressed to your kids. It’s more than just words or understanding they will receive in reading this, but a healing – all who read it will.
When we realize that playing the ‘role’ of what we think is expected of us keeps us away from the truth of who we are this offers the opportunity to be free of ideals and beliefs and feel the love of who we naturally are.
This is a lovely sharing Janice, to share your letter for your children that comes with such love that is equally shared with us too is very beautiful.
I’m sure this was a very powerful letter to receive.
I feel that no one can be blamed for trying to be the perfect mum or friend. I am sure that I have done this in reaction to all that is not perfect or loving that I can see and maybe it is as simple as not wanting to contribute to the loveliness that exists between people, but somewhere along the line what love is can be re-interpreted and it becomes what we can do for each other, when really it is just about being who we are.
I love the title of your blog Janice. I can feel how open and enthusiastic you are about life at the young age of 64.
The feelings of guilt can cripple us a parents. If I get stuck in regret, it keeps me in a sad place where there is no way out. Its funny that by letting go of the harsh self judgement, I am free to talk about my past mistakes, knowing that I am no longer making the same choices.
Janice – it is beautiful to bring all of you and share it with your children in such honesty. I have always believed that my responsibility is to live in love, honesty and always with an open heart; expanding with every breath I take. This is a gift we can give to our children. Thank you.
Dear Janice, thank you for your letter, you have expressed for all moms and all parents, for all children and grandchildren. This blessing is for the whole world. It is never too late to express truth, as every word of truth said, is a point of reflection for every person in the the world.
To be able to pen this letter with such clarity of who is you are what you stand for has been humbling to read Janice Mooney. There are still so many beliefs and ideas of how we should be for our siblings, friends, children and partners that hides the quality of life we all choose to live. They often say that words heal great wounds and obviously you have chosen to let go of many hurts that stopped you from living the truth and vitality you feel in your life now. A wonderful confirmation for all to read. Thank you!
To not be hard on myself when I slipped up, I too thought those days were going until very recently when I fell into the emotion of feeling guilty. But on reflection, what a gift it was; an opportunity to deepen the love I have for myself.
What an inspiration Janice, this sharing is. As we grow through The Way of The Livingness, as presented by Serge Benhayon we can see where we have been and appreciate where we are now, and to me this is a beautiful opportunity to share those changes with our families too. I love the changes that have come into my life and the freeing up and flow they allow through these teachings and the Livingness of the same.
What a choice to simply live with the love and self care that allows the glory to shine, as a reflection to all we all feel the connection to our Soul.
What a gift to your children Janice. Setting them free to be who they truly are, so loving.
Self-love in parenting is vital and essential. Beyond all the practicalities of daily life there is love, and without this element life can become heavy and burdensome. Therefore the greatest gift we can give to our children is in role modelling self-love. For those of us who did not have this kind of parenting when we were young it can be a challenge, but the truth is there in our hearts and we can access it at any time. There are also the fantastic role models of the people of Universal Medicine. And so, it is never too late to start, it is never too late to begin to explore what self-love is, because at any given moment you are worth loving.
It is beautiful and important to read here how Janice Mooney has equated her own loveliness with the presence of the soul and how parenting is in fact an expression for the soul on earth. She shows us how we can sabotage or get in the way of this by imposing on to ourselves and our children all the ideals we have collected along the way, but she also writes how none of that is true to who we are and should not be taken as such, because ultimately the truth of who we are can be found in the loveliness of our connection with the soul.
This letter rocks! A letter not only for one family but a letter for all. The messages are the same as we are all coming from the same source. The willingness of the writer to step up to share this is so inspiring.
Thank you Janice, this is truly beautiful and healing to read – to express our love and truth like this in letters to our loved ones is a true blessing and very supportive for many to read – very inspiring.
Janice your letter is a God send, truly truly healing for all mothers and all women out there. You offer an amazing refection to all that read this. Thank you Janice.
Thank you Janice for truly beautiful and soulful letter, holding your family in such love and sharing your truth.
The Way of the Livingness supports us back to our truth but on that path we have to discard all that we have accumulated that is not truth – that is the challenging part – it is a path of return were we face all our choices, the great ones and the horrible ones, and we have the opportunity to re-impring them and heal them in order to live all of the glory that we can be.
Beautifully expressed, ‘The Way of the Livingness supports us back to our truth but on that path we have to discard all that we have accumulated that is not truth’.
Beautifully all encompassing letter Janice, and an impressive shift with 64! It is really astounding when people after so many years admit that what they had lived wasn’t it and are willing to start anew – this is incredibly courageous!
‘It is not about being perfect and then feeling guilty when I slip up. Those days are gone. It is about living gently in stillness and bringing a loving presence to every moment of every day.’ This is the trap so many of us fall into:being perfect and then feeling guilty when we slip up. Trying to be perfect is so exhausting and often leads to short spells of rebellion, rebellion against one’s own self-imposed rules. Living gently in stillness is so much kinder and then being present is a true gift we can give ourselves bringing a grace and expansive quality that we can appreciate and allow to grow with us.
It is lovely to feel the appreciation of the different choices which could have been made without carrying regret.
This is huge. Being gentle upon and with ourselves by bringing an understanding and no judgement is truly healing. When we can do this with ourselves we can begin to bring this to others too.
A beautiful letter for everyone to read and know thank you Janice. As we come to know Universal Medicine our whole life opens up and the truth of all becomes apparent and all that is going on and we have a choice to change things to being truly loving and constellating a life that flows with harmony and joy and your letter shows just this.
Beautiful Janice, it just goes to show that it is NEVER too late to begin to heal, and announce the choices which we made that were not true, and this has a massive effect on those around us and our family. Clearing our own hurts is also help others to heal theirs. Letting go of judgement on ourselves and others, ultimately frees us of a cage of energy and we start to see clearly again the essence of a relationship and start to rebuild a loving one.
“….frees us of a cage of energy…” this is so great to acknowledge. Through our own judgements of another we imprison ourselves and this helps no one least of all ourselves. There needs to be clarity and freedom to move forward in harmony together.
I loved finding my way back to your beautiful blog Janice as I can feel a shift in my relationship with my adult children as a result of reaching another level of awareness of myself as a woman. There are so many things that I said and did as a mother that I would love to go back and change, but of course that is impossible, but what is possible is for me to share my way of living – The Way of the Livingness – with my children and grandchildren, not holding back the amazing me, not playing small anyone more but allowing all that I gloriously am to shine forth. I get a sense that this reflection is a little bright for them at times and they struggle to express how they feel, but I have made a commitment to shine this light until my last breath, not just for them but for everyone else I meet, and that I will do.
This line struck me today: ‘It has taken me quite some time to develop my awareness again of how I actually feel about everything and have always been able to feel, but how I have often disregarded what I was feeling in favour of what I was thinking or what others were telling me to think.’ It has been an amazing journey, first of all to discover how much of my self worth was based on other people’s opinions and second, to adjust my way of living to allow myself to feel more. This is still a work in progress but amazingly, the more I can feel the more I know what to do next.
Janice, a beautiful sharing. Your transformation is clear as is your honesty and grace. To communicate in this way with family, friends and others we relate to is rare and inspiring. As we heal ourselves we can heal and re-imprint all our relationships.
“Now I know that I have had the truth inside me all along” Wow with this sentence alone we can change our whole world. Most of life is geared for searching seeking something outside of ourselves yet as you re discovered it eternally there.
Janice this is a beautiful letter to your children, and I love the unimposing sharing, leaving it as a choice for them to accept or not.
Janice I loved reading your letter, it has great openness and honesty, which made it a joy to read, thank you.
Thank you Janice, for speaking to us all of loving without imposing – very precious.
There was definitely nothing imposing in this letter hence why others could read this and make links to how they have chosen to live with their families. A true teaching for many.
Janice I love reading this letter it is so real true and loving and brings a depth of connection and joy inside to rejoice and feel the inspiration.
Janice, this letter I feel could easily be written by even someone who was not a parent. There are many things contained in this letter that I can relate to in regards to my relationships with people over the years. I may not be a mother, but I have certainly lived in a very mothering energy my entire life and I have absolutely used ‘doing good’, to help fill my personal void.
Thank you for sharing.
This is a lovely sharing to read Janice, beautifully written, your family must be feeling your joy and rejoicing for you! To write from the heart and share with all, is such a gift. Thank you.
Thank you Janice, this is so beautiful to read and feel the love and depth of care for your family and for all of humanity.
Janice, what a gorgeous letter. To be able to reflect on your life and its’ influences and to acknowledge how things could have been different in your parenting is pretty amazing and heartfelt for us all. Your appreciation of your continuing unfolding of self is a gift for us all.
This is a beautiful letter of healing and appreciation for everyone and says it all. The love and expression felt brings a truth and understanding and is a gift to humanity.
beautiful Janice, reading this I shed a tear of joy.
Your open and loving expression as a mother inspires me in my own role as a mother with 2 children.
Knowing we are so much more within brings true nourishment to the roles and responsibilities we have in life
Janice- what a beautiful honest sharing of truth to your family about how parenting was before Universal medicine – based on ideals and beliefs, and reactions from your hurts, and now after reconnecting to your inner wisdom and soul.
Parents parent from the knowledge and/or wisdom they have available to them based on their choices and readiness to examine and deal with their own hurts. I love what Janice is sharing here – acknowledging that aspects of her parenting came from her hurts rather than the truth of who she is, but wanting to begin to act from that truth now that she has the awareness and willingness to deal with her hurts. – Beautiful.
A beautiful letter offering truth and a new way of being one of true love and knowing from with in. This is a letter for all and an inspiration for change in the world.
Janice, it feels like you have done much soul searching and healing not only at the courses but also in the way that you live. This has enabled you to reflect on tour life with such beautiful honesty. Without judgment you were open to feeling it all for what it was, accepted it, learned from it, and let it go. That is such a wise and gracious thing to do for yourself and those around you.
This really is a great sharing for all parents to see what choices we are able to make at any given time and there is no need at all to hang onto the past as we were only doing the best that could before connecting to the truth. Parenting is a freaky thing and so many parents get it wrong by trying too hard to get it right.
This is so true Kevin mchardy, as I see this every day at my work in a childcare centre. Parents trying too hard to get it right, and seen to be a good parent. You can feel that the children are really going against what they feel inside to please their parents.
Spot on Kevin,
In “trying” to get parenting right many of us parents get it wrong!
This has felt true for me in recognising my responsibility as a parent I felt a pressure to be perfect and rather then listen to my inner wisdom would seek external advise and knowledge.
Since choosing a loving rhythm for myself I now have a deeper more loving relationship with myself my 2 children. New challenges always arise and it can be easy to fall into old patterns if I don’t choose to love and honour my connection first
It is this love and connection with myself and God that brings the opportunity to truly love and appreciate my children for who they are.
This is such a humbling piece of writing that would touch the heart of all children. The realizations that have come later in life for you Janice is a great example that it is never too late to feel and share what you know is the truth. Inspiring!
Janice it sounds like you are not prepared to stay where you are, even though you’ve made some fabulous changes and you are not going to settle for being comfortable – ‘ as my soul has a constant way of inviting me to step up to another level of awareness. How awesome is that!’ I agree it is truly awesome.
Janice Mooney – your rock the house! A truly humbling letter that speaks volumes to your children, to those who will read it but also to the whole world. What you have laid down here in simply expressing what you felt is life changing.
Janice , what an amazing place the world would be if we could all be as you describe in your blog. All coming from that deep inner love first for ourselves so that that love we hold for ourselves is soul guided, so is not seeking anything, for it does not need anything, just our own constant support to be held so completely in.
Thank you Janice for sharing your story with us. Being a mother of two I can relate to parenting with all kinds of ideals and beliefs and often feeling out of my depth when it came to parenting, along with the doubts of getting it right or wrong – not to mention the anxiety. What I feel from your sharing is that there is a totally different relationship we can have with our children, which is more honest and that if we are having a wobble about our parenting it’s actually ok to admit this, after all we do not have to be perfect.
“if we are having a wobble about our parenting it’s actually ok to admit this, after all we do not have to be perfect” Thanks Julie you always bring a realness and what you say hay about not being perfect is like a breath of fresh air. Perfection is just another tool used to keep us down.
I love that you describe your relationship with your children as a mother and a friend.
We can be so many things to so many people and should not cap our selves in roles. We can be our true selves with anyone and everyone, wether they are friends and family, or colleagues and strangers that we pass in our days.
I find it’s really interesting to observe how we may act differently around different groups of people, and notice how we may be tailoring versions of our selves to what we think people want or need -it’s full of judgement, manipulation and holding back who we are and all that we have to offer.
So touching and incredible to feel, how you just let go, what you have lived, without any judgement or regret, but looking forward, knowing you have claimed the connection to your soul and that’s the only way. You just let go what you have lived like taking off an old coat, that is so impressing and inspiring. Also to feel the love and truth in your words. Beautiful, Janice.
If we all shared love with our children in the way you have described here, our world would be a very very different place.
What a beautiful and honest letter to write to your children. What I love about this is that you wrote them the letter as an equal, not as a hierarchical figure head. You made being a mother real.
How glorious of you, that you could write such a self- connected piece of intimacy! You are the living proof that it is worth it to not regret how we once were, but to move forward and to express this in full! Your children and grandchildren are lucky people to have you in their lives.
It’s the beauty of cycles that we always get a chance to re-imprint what we have lived, and it’s the beauty of the livingness that shows us a loving way to do this. Beautiful Janice, thank you for sharing.
What a beautiful letter for your children to receive, Janice. I haven’t written my children a letter but over the past few years I have been sharing with them more about their upbringing and how in many ways I made some good parenting choices and some not so good parenting choices. These sharings have opened up some beautiful intimate conversations between us bringing awareness of our unresolved hurt and the fact that we carry the hurt in our body.
Janice your letter has once again shown the depth so many are willing to go to expose what you thought was true but now realised what you feel is the absolute truth. A must read and the most treasured gift a parent could ever give to their child.
Thank you Janice for sharing. I agree with many of the comments that have been made, that this is a letter I too could write to my daughter. I could feel so much love in this letter.
This letter you wrote Janice is so beautiful and healing for all to read. Imagine if all parents took this level of responsibility and expressed this love and truth to their children – there would be a lot less blame and hurt in our relationships. Thank you Janice your letter has inspired me in many ways.
I used to shy away from responsibility and didn’t much care for the word. I used it as my way of staying small in the world and not stepping up, but as someone some time ago shared in a group session, if you turn it around, it’s the ability to respond with love. So now, choosing to be responsible and make truly loving and supportive choices for myself, means I am saying yes to life, yes to brotherhood and yes to service and all of those things are most definitely on my radar as the very thing that is proving to bring so much light, playfulness and joy to my life. Who would have figured, that the very thing I was shying away from, is the very thing that supports me to be amazing and coming more from my own true light.
That is such a beautiful letter Janice and if I may say my feeling is you wrote this not only for your children and grandchildren – you wrote it also for all of us – Thank you!
Thank you so much for sharing this letter, Janice. It is certainly an inspiration for me to do the same for my children not simply in writing but in the way I interact with them daily – letting them feel and see the change in me since I started working with Universal Medicine and the invitation that is on offer to them – not imposed but always available. Accepting the choices I have made throughout my life also develops my understanding of theirs. This has helped me dispense with the arrogance and guilt of parenting. Thank you again, Janice.
What I feel very deeply as I read your letter Janice is, as well as the immense honesty, wisdom and grace offered to those who read it, I feel the love, understanding, acceptance and honouring you have provided for yourself and that is huge. From this place we express with an openness, love and power that truly blesses ourself and everyone else. Very beautiful.
I agree Elizabeth, the elder energy is powerful, still and accepting of life lived, and what Janice is now living and honouring in herself is a beautiful example of how elder women hold the wiseness that is so needed within our communities – not to be put on the shelf but nestled up to for truth, love and wonderfully wise support.
That is a great observation knowing that truth was inside you all along. We just had chosen a delay and have made a other round but we will return all back to the same point of truth and love, the one sooner, the other one later, everyone in their own time.
Such a lovely letter Janice. I love how you share about the choices we make about not feeling what is truly going on for us. When I look back on when my children were younger, I too could have said, “No one told me that; yet I also chose not to feel that for myself either.” Feeling into that choice now, feels so restrictive and unloving, and holding everyone back from the truth of who we truly are.
What I get here today is that the choice to change and heal, the choice to bring something else to the world, my family and friends then the traditionell education we come from is ageless. To bring a change is always just a choice away. To express this choice and claim it so, also into the relationships we live – is just beautiful. Thank you Janice.
What a truly loving person / mum you are Janice. Taking responsibility is the way in any relationship. Living responsibility and reflecting this as a mum is honoring the role model that you are.
What a gift you are to your children Janice, a women taking responsibility for herself and past choices and living this by example.
A gorgeous letter for us all and it was a joy to read. This line caught my eye because this is how I used to be, but like you Janice these days are now gone. “It is not about being perfect and then feeling guilty when I slip up. Those days are gone. It is about living gently in stillness and bringing a loving presence to every moment of every day.” Gentleness and stillness are our natural ways of being and feel so lovely compared to the beating up and struggle to be perfect that once ruled my life.
A beautiful letter and tribute to your self your family and everyone, thank you for sharing this so simply. The true way of living you have found so joyfully that we all know inside us. No judgements just a new way in every moment with stillness, responsibility with out perfection, just loving unconditionally.Lovely to read
A beautiful letter and tribute to your self your family and everyone, thank you for sharing this so simply. The true way of living you have found so joyfully that we all know inside us. No judgements just a new way in every moment with stillness, responsibility with out perfection, just loving unconditionally.
” … sometimes I fall back into old patterns of rush, anxiety, busy doings, frustration, judgement, comparison, feeling self-worth issues of not being good enough etc. etc. However, when that happens, I now feel it and renounce it.”
Thank you, Jan, for sharing honestly what happens in everyday life – the falling back into the previous behaviours – and then providing one way of dealing with that! 🙂 Feeling and renouncing, the keys, thank you again.
When I ‘fall back’ and make mistakes my response to this is so revelatory of where I am at. If I can accept and appreciate the mistake as another opportunity and point of learning I am dusted down and back on track really quickly, but if I let that mistake be a gateway for all the self-criticism and judgment (that I chose to live with for so long) to come flooding back in I am reduced away from the lightness and sweetness that I and life naturally are. This feels like treacle and ensnaring seaweed that is a struggle to walk forward in. The amazing thing is that this is always our choice – simply one that we shy away from sometimes.
That is an important point here Matilda: Sometimes the actual “fall back” is not the problem- what we as women make out of it- the self bashing is actually the much bigger harm. If you once stop that and cuddle yourself in acceptance and understanding, then the vicious cycle of self abuse stops and the focus is on what actual hurt us, instead of the self criticism.
“No one told me that; yet I also chose not to feel that for myself either.”
I relate to this sentence as I’ve just had a recent session in which it became apparent that as a child and young person I decided to not trust my knowing, in favour of outside influences. What I’m now looking at is why it was constellated that I had no-one to tell me that this knowing was all that I needed to live by … what was the pay-off for me to be drawn to outside of myself?
“It is not about being perfect and then feeling guilty when I slip up. Those days are gone. It is about living gently in stillness and bringing a loving presence to every moment of every day”. It is so simple – bringing the fullness of our presence into every moment of each and every day, without perfection or judgment to see what lessons and unfolding is on offer. A super sweet letter Janice. Thank you for sharing it here.
I appreciate your love, courage and willingness to make different choices to what you know is not true anymore, Janice.
Your letter is an exampl for all of us of how to be in relationships with our children/ parents, honest, simple, transparent and full of unfolding joy.
A beautiful letter Janice, this bit stood out for me, ‘Now I know that I have had the truth inside me all along.
No one told me that; yet I also chose not to feel that for myself either. It has taken me quite some time to develop my awareness again of how I actually feel about everything and have always been able to feel, but how I have often disregarded what I was feeling in favour of what I was thinking or what others were telling me to think.’ Thank goodness for The Way of The Livingness and Serge Benhayon.
Janice I love how you have spoken here about allowing yourself to come back to the loving place you know – your Soul – when old patterns or things that might make you feel not-so-great come back in. We can so easily get caught up in these things and allow them to perpetuate until one day they are forced to stop. Or we can stop them ourselves and surrender to knowing that these behaviours are not us, but come from how we have chosen and been conditioned from the world to be. Having this point of reconnection is key however, as without it we do not know any different to the merry-go-round we can otherwise live on.
Amazing Janice, so warm, honest and accessible. It’s a letter from all parents to all children. Thanks for your beautiful expression of love.
Truly beautiful to read and feel Janice – the openness you express with feels like you were talking to me – to all of us – explaining so simply what it is to start to live truth.
What a gorgeous letter to write to your kids. To say that the way you were as a mother and a woman was not true, that doing and busyness is not it, is super important to say and cut the transference that happens from one generation to another. I loved that there was no guilt or remorse in your letter, just the joy of claiming this refound way of being.
I agree Fiona. We need to renounce that busy-ness and doing many things result in achievement. It is our quality first and foremost that allows anything we do to have true value. When we fully realise this, life becomes so much simpler.
No guilt or remorse – good point, Fiona. This is quite a different approach to how many mothers might have written. It shows the loving regard Janice has for herself (and thus others), a loving regard that would be a game-changer in society if everyone had it for themselves. It would completely transform the world … and one day it will.
I am honoured, Janice Mooney, to be one of your extended family to read your beautiful, open letter. You are becoming a Master of Renouncement, thank-you.
I feel the lightness and freedom of where you write this perspective of how you once were in your life as a norm.
There is no beat up, just a recount of your healing of your self and how you now see and feel the awesomeness, and loveliness of your children and grand children. Also the wonder of your evolutionary ongoing journey and the appreciation you have.
Thank you, this is wonderful. I hope one day to be able to write a similar heartfelt letter to my own children which does not impose and feels freeing , letting your loved ones be, and yet encouraging of all that they are. I also perceive a loving detachment however they may perceive your communication.
“I feel to say that by firstly having self-care, self-nurturing, and self-loving rhythms in my day as to what I eat and drink, how I sleep, talk, move, dress etc. has reawakened my awareness of the truths I know within me and always have. ” This is so practical and tangible for anyone to understand.
Janice, clearly many people have been able to relate to your blog. It is a loving testament of how far you have come in getting back to knowing your real self through the peeling off of the layers that have held you back in the dark. How common it is that until we start to do this type of work that we don’t even know what is getting in the way – we just search, knowing that there is a better way than what we currently have at that point. Learning to Be in our fullness is a real game changer.
Janice I appreciate your choice to share this letter and allow all to feel what it may be like to have a parent expressing like this. The joy of feeling someone choose love more consistently in their lives who you have known all your life and have felt influenced by other choices they have made, is deeply healing for all as it shows what the future will be like as we all come back to love.
I agree entirely, Simon. I love too the absolute power of honesty which leaves no shady corners for question or doubt. I love that we have all ‘received’ this letter.
This is beautiful Janice! Your blog feels so honest, accessible, possible and very very inspirational. No matter the age, we always have the choice to live from the truth of our Soul. It doesn’t matter the moment, this choice always makes the difference and the life that is lived from there is forever expanding and brand new.
I really appreciate that letter from a mother, the honesty accepting mistakes as part of evolution and the willingness to share the new way of living with her children, it feels like a mother in the big picture, stepping out of the traditional roles of mums and being an instrument of evolution for her children.
A very clear statement of intentions and realities. Your newly found way of living and the healing you have gone through is definitely felt and not only by your children. It is moving to see a mum take responsibility, it brought tears to my eyes. We normally take for granted that mums love their children, but this is a testimony of true love and evolution in motherhood.
Love is reflected back to us when we choose it. It’s a law. How powerful are we to heal not only ourselves, but to allow all people around us to choose the same.
I love it when parents have enough humbleness and love for their children to simply admit they did something wrong, it shows enormous strength and willingness to change – I have huge appreciation for that, thank you.
I too see the strength and healing from a parent opening themselves like this to their children; humbleness is power.
Janie I can feel the beauty, strength and healing in what you shared. Reading it myself I could feel my body let go and release from some tension I was holding. This certainly shows the world how to truly be in family.
‘It is about living gently in stillness and bringing a loving presence to every moment of every day.’ What a beautiful way to live with ourselves and our family – thank you Janice.
Oh my goodness Janice, you could have written this for me. Thank you so much. This is so healing.
Yes Amanda, Janice wrote an open letter to children in the world – and we are all deeply touched and honoured.
Thank you for writing this heartfelt letter Janice, it truly is for all. I felt a deep acceptance and serenity through your loving expression. How awesome is it that we can re-imprint our lives energetically when we live from the truth of who we are – the ideals and beliefs around mothering can hold us very tightly and your letter is inspiring that you have totally evolved from those restrictions.
Janice, your offering here is testimony to changes that come about with embodying The Way of Livingness; a way that reveals our true selves and frees us from the shackles of roles and ideals of what it is to be a parent.
I’m glad you decided to share that with us all and not keep it just for your kids!
Your opening line in the letter is massive. I selected upon whether that is what I am reflecting to my child, and to everyone? Reflecting lovingly how to BE in our fullness is perhaps the greatest thing we can offer anyone.
Hi Janice
What an inspiration you are for everyone. You have chosen to reconnect to your soul and shine brightly. This in turn supports everyone in your life including all of us to re-ignite our own fiery lights from within. This is the definition of TRUE Parenting…. by example.
A very inspiring letter, and very supportive to your children that you feel able to to express your truth so openly and honestly with them.
It is so powerful to choose to see the beliefs and ideals that we have been living through and furthermore to feel how they have prevented us from bringing the fullness of the love that we are to our lives. I also value your reflection here Janice about how when we are living from the Soul there is no room for comfort or plateau – we have never ‘made it’ in the sense that we are always being offered the opportunity to evolve further.
Absolutely Sarah, ‘It is so powerful to choose to see the beliefs and ideals that we have been living through and furthermore to feel how they have prevented us from bringing the fullness of the love that we are to our lives.’
’ In this way of living I am still able to be very busy at what I choose to be involved in. In fact, it is my way of choosing to serve humanity. That is still my focus as I feel it has always been. However, it is now lived so very differently from before.’ Beautiful – it is the quality we offer that matters.
A gorgeous account Janice – thank you. ’ I hope that you can feel the loving support I am offering you now that comes no longer laced with my hurts and issues or layers of attitudes, values and ideals. I hope that you feel this release of my ‘energy’ on you as you make your own choices about your way of living.’ Spoken with a deep understanding that not until we set each other free can there be true Love.
What deeply touches me about this letter Janice, is your expression of you in your essence with no lacing of any ideals of what it is to be a mother and parent. This confirms the renouncing you explain in your letter and is an inspiration and letter to us all. Thank you.
It is very true that we can become hurt from life, and thus take that into relationships and then even when we are offering support and guidance it can be laced with our issues. What is incredible about this letter Janice is that you are putting all truths on the table, that yes you have been hurt and yes you have let that cloud your relationship in the past, but you are living differently now and can therefore support without the hurts, needs or expectations, which is pretty awesome!
What a great gift this letter is to your children – a true love letter. Thank you for sharing it with us too – as a daughter and a mother I found it so inspiring.
This letter is so powerful because it is fearless, because of its sense of claiming what is true for you now Janice.. that is so important that it needs to be expressed no matter that the years have passed. Yet the opportunity for growing, healing and changing how you live, and your relationship with your kids and grandkids is no less potent. Its beautiful that you are so committed to making these changes and I’m sure the love for all of you will expand.
When we re-imprint the relationship with ourselves, this creates the ripple effect that all our relationships are re-imprinted, with perhaps the more challenging ones taking a little longer as we build or allow more love in our bodies.
Deeply inspiring letter, a gift to all humanity. Thank you Janice.
I am inspired, with having no kids yet, I can feel how I would dearly appreciate this letter if I where your son or daughter. It is incredible how honesty and openness actually brings healing and space. I find it truly inspirational to read this text without any imposition on them, no hurt, no blame, no victimhood or guilt, but pure truthful reflection on your life. That to me is real love, a real loving mum, who lets her kids free and themselves now. The rest does not matter now.
“Now I know that I have had the truth inside me all along”. This rings a bell for me to after meeting Serge Benhayon for the first time. This knowing is the strength we all carry inside ourselves if we choose to connect to it as it is always there as is the amazing love we all are inside to.Thank you for an inspiration worth treasuring.
I too was moved to tears reading Janice’s most exquisite share : re-claiming so powerfully her knowingness, and renunciation all that had in the past not been of the love she now knows, and with such humility and tenderness. What a healing to your children Janice and what gift and healing to all of us who can read it.
Janice, I can say that not only is “The Way of The Livingness is Awesome at 64” it is also awesome at any age. I am now 44 and my life has transformed from 10 years ago. I see children turning into amazing teenagers and young adults from the support The Way of the Livingness offers. Their level of maternity and understanding blows me away. Truly the Way of the Livingness is for everyone.
Yes Rachel, The Way of The Livingness is Awesome at any age and Is The New Way…..
A great letter for all of us to read what else lies hidden in the illusion of parenting what expectations do we ut on ourselves and on our kids that then stops us all from being who we really are.
Yes Nicole, I absolutely agree. The mothering aspect is so ingrained and sometimes so hidden. It is always feeling responsible for others and forgetting about yourself. This is so illusionary as this ideal how to be as a mother asks you to care more about a life of another, the kids or husband, than for your own life.
I agree Dianne, the workshops presented by Universal Medicine are deeply healing and give an understanding for the process.
Yes Nicole the illusion that we are what we DO rather than WHO we are.
In truth role playing has no place in a relationship between a parent and a child. Sure the child needs guidance and support but it has to come from a place of self awareness and responsibility first. We can parent with love once we claim the love first in our own bodies.
To parent from our fullness is to inspire, as you have done Janice. And its never too late.
Janice, I love a love letter. I used to fall for any declaration of love, but to read and feel a true declaration from the heart is always deeply inspiring. With true love comes responsibility and you have certainly taken steps in sharing this way of your living with others.
Thank you, Janice. The letter to your adult children is super inspiring, as an effective way to cut any lingering ideals and beliefs in your role as a mother from the past, and clear the way for true relationship and a new foundation of love with each other.
This is a truly beautiful, honest and loving blog to share with your family and now us! This says it all and I for one have often thought that I would like to talk to my own children and express to t hem how I feel about my Mothering skills from the past , and no matter what lies ahead for us I will be there to encourage, love and support them no matter what. Thank you Janice so supportive and revealing.
Amazing letter full of light and so light written for all of us. Truly inspiring to let go past hurts and reimprint chose anew and share yourself in full Janice. Thank You and so many amazing comments what shows how powerful this letter is and healing. With love Nadine
Thank you Janice for an inspiring display of parenting with love
This letter shows everyone how it is possible to change the love we feel for ourselves whilst embracing the love that we feel for our family. And how, in doing so, we are in fact given the opportunity to extend that love out well beyond the borders of our families and in to society with a genuine solidity that does not fade or go away with the changing tides of emotional attachments and dilemmas.
It was so heart warming to read such a deeply touching expression of love and truth from you to your children Janice, and you have inspired me to put pen to paper and to express to my children how my life was when I was raising them and how my life is now; without any expectations, just an expression of love and truth. I could feel such clarity in your renunciation of your old ways of mothering which has now served to clear the path for the new way that you have so inspirationally chosen to claim.
Such is the power of honesty, and what can be when we are this [honest] , this Letter shows that it’s never too late in age years or circumstance to realise the not so great or accepting ways we have lived life, to the way life can now be when the new choice is towards the infinite sands of love.
Absolutely Zofia, it is never too late, as there is no such thing as ‘too late’. There is a time for everything.
Hi Janice, interested how at the end of our blog you mention releasing an energy you have held from influencing your family (my paraphrase). Yes this feels like part of renouncing, of letting go and the understanding that this is releasing what may have affected others in the paste as well as yourself is awesome.
In truth not many of us have had what you talk of a childhood being loved for who we are. To start at any age to reflect letting go of hurts is a step towards a generation being bought up with much more true love as their foundation.
What an amazing opportunity for a child to grow up in a family where truth and love are offered with the parents. This child will not fall for emptiness and sex later, as there is no need to fill anything inside with a substitute for love.
I was particulary struck by the opening line of your letter: ‘I feel that I did not reflect lovingly to any of you, my three children, how to BE in your fullness, allowing your soul to connect to you as you lived and did things every day. I was very good at doing things with you and for you…’ These are extremely powerful words to read as a mother. My daughter is 7 and I am really starting to embody what you have expressed here, with the realization that I am so much more than the role I play as a mother and just doing things with and for her is not what makes me who I am and is not all that she needs. It is the constant and deepening relationship I have with myself, to be with and listen to myself and the expression of this in my everyday movements. It is knowing that to live a full and committed life that allows me to bring my light to humanity, to people outside of my home, this is what will reflect to her how to live in her fullness, in connection with her soul … not by simply giving myself and dedicating my life to her. I am her caretaker but she is not my purpose for living. So fabulous to express this as in the world of mothering, it can be easy to fall for this ideal and use it as an excuse for not living our own lives.
How healing to put the awareness of your awakening process into words for your children to read Jan, for both you and them to be clear about what you now feel, what you felt all along and how you have been letting it all go to make way for the emergence of a true way of living. It is such an incredibly brave and powerful process we are all undertaking, at whatever age we come to the Livingness. It is so important to deeply appreciate how amazing we are for embracing this in full so that can evolve, come out of the heaviness and dullness we were living and get to know and express who we really are.
“Don’t cap your joy. Your loving reflection is awesome.” A beautiful way to finish an ever inspiring note to your children Janice. Our joy is indeed limitless when we lovingly accept how truly awesome we are. Thank you I love this blog.
What a great letter to your children – just stating the facts, no guilt and brimming with self appreciation of what you bring and what you have always been, absolutely awesome.
I love that final line too Monica – a beautiful summary and blessing that Janice has confirmed back to her children of who they truly are.
Such a gorgeous letter which can be universally felt by all who read it, thank you Janice.
“I feel that I did not reflect lovingly to any of you, my three children, how to BE in your fullness, allowing your soul to connect to you as you lived and did things every day.” Your opening line Janice gives us what every child deserves as they grow and how healing to have expressed this now they are grown up. It goes to show us it’s never too late to connect back to love.
Well said Rosanna – this would go well as an introduction to parenting skills!
What a beautiful healing for your children. I don’t know how you were with them as a mother, but your letter to them fully expressed you as you, not as a mother, I could feel your tenderness and love it touched my heart very beautiful, Thank you
Thank you for opening up this letter for your children to us all Janine.
I love this part Janice, and in a way is a letter to more people then just your children “You are amazing people. I feel your awareness and loveliness. You mean the world to me. Be gentle with yourselves. Don’t cap your joy. Your loving reflection is awesome.” what you have presented here is amazing base for a relationship to go from- full of understanding and acceptance. It’s no wonder it’s on the everyday livingness blog site.
AN amazing turn around.
it is difficult to change habits that have been there for so long. Especially if those habits exist in relationship to others i.e. family.
I will assess how I may have similar events that may need addressing as well.
Janice, it is a pleasure to read your letter, thank you for sharing with many. As I read it again it does feel like it is a letter for all to consider. I feel to heal what has past, it is so essential to be understanding with ourselves and others, if we get caught up in guilt or blame it becomes a prison of our own making. It is evident here that there is a freedom in this understanding you are blooming and flourishing.
Wowza! What a letter, such a blessing to yourself, your family and us for honouring the impulse to write it with the honesty and integrity which emanates through it.
This letter Janice is a confirmation that we are all parents to each other in some way or other and not just to our own children, as the wisdom that comes through is doing the parenting and is for all.
“I hope that you feel this release of my ‘energy’ on you as you make your own choices about your way of living.”
Yes Janice the freedom you have allowed yourself and your children is deeply felt, the space you have made for everyone to evolve and grow together is truly humbling, thank-you.
This is a beautiful letter, sharing that what you have learnt along the way without perfection. But with a true love for your children.
How powerful it is when we renounce a behaviour. Instead of planning to ‘never do it again’ or berating ourselves for it happening, we get to see that this way of behaving simply isn’t true. This has a way of putting a complete ‘full stop’ in its path unlike any other. Whilst we naturally look back and acknowledge the harm that has occurred its also very freeing to move forward as you do Janice, with new space to breathe, to love and be all of you. Thank you for your openness and honesty.
Yes Joseph renouncing a behaviour is super powerful and Janice has demonstrated so beautifully how to acknowledge past harm caused by undealt with issues whilst embracing her ongoing evolution without striving for perfection. An awesome reflection for us all.
Beautiful Janice so inspiring with a real depth of honesty and knowing. This is a gift for everyone to feel and know for ourselves and is deeply touching. It is bringing a wisdom to the world and all relationships of the way we can truly live when healing our hurts and letting go of our belief systems and impositions, living everything we know inside our bodies lovingly in connection with our innate beauty and love. Thank you
What a gift to yourself and your children this is Janice. And what freedom you now have to move forward in the way that you choose.
Agree Rebecca Turner, the power of renunciation creates a clean open space and expansiveness in the body. To feel this freedom is like arriving at the water/oasis in the arid desert. After which there can be renaissance.
Gyl you feel so 3 dimensional as opposed to so many people in relationships that feel as flat as cardboard. It’s about fleshing ourselves out as people not, as so many people falsely believe, being in relationships. It’s actually being in relationships out of need that can keep a person from fleshing themselves out.
I feel there is so much wisdom to be absorbed from your words that this blog needs to be read again and again. Beautiful Janice.
It is very difficult not to be guilty about our unloving ways in the past – this was the case for me until I realised that guilt in any way, shape or form is another way not to be loving right now! I still put right what I can from my past but as an expression of my fullness, my wholeness as remaining that way is much better than putting on the burden of guild and more or less mournfully try to balance the scales by feeling worse and worse. That is not how it works.
Good call Christoph, I have found in the past I can even indulge in feeling guilty when so much energy can be spared by simply by saying ‘whoops what can I learn from this” Gone are my days of wallowing in guilt. Not feeling good enough or setting ourselves up to not meet our own expectations is a sure way to bring the heaviness of guilt in.
“It is not about being perfect and then feeling guilty when I slip up. Those days are gone. It is about living gently in stillness and bringing a loving presence to every moment of every day.” Janice your words are full of love, honesty and acceptance of how far you have come. This letter is inspiring for all thank you for sharing.
You have given your children and all of us a beautiful gift in sharing this letter. A gift of love from a parent showing understanding and love to themselves.
That’s beautiful Janice, I love your letter and the healing.
Hi Janice,
I really felt the love in this letter and the joy you have rediscovered in your own connection. Such a beautiful letter for us all to read and a healing is offered to all who do.
So true JY – I could also feel how deeply this healing was for me while reading , very very awesome letter.
Janice, thank you for writing such a loving letter to and for us All.
The Way of the Livingness is awesome at any stage and age we choose; the beauty is its timeless. It’s never to late to connect to our soul and allow ourselves to release constructs of external impositions.
What you’ve said is so perfect Sandra. No matter when we come to the livingness it’s always eternal and always the way.
Thank you Janice for proving that it’s never too late to deal with our stuff and clear it. No matter what age, we are always free to make the choice to grow from all that we have learnt.
Wow this is so beautiful Janice. Thank you for sharing your letter from your heart – truly inspiring and confirming that it is never too late.
Beautiful, and thanks you so much for sharing. Reading this reminds me that I too can let go of where I made mistakes as a parent, that none of us are perfect or need to be.
Exactly, none of us are perfect and this is such an inspiration of how to lovingly let go of what is not us without the capping berating which often goes on that keeps us riding the merry-go-round.
So true Rosie, no doubt as parents a lot feel guilty for mistakes they’ve made. Yet we arnt perfect so can for sure let go of all that and just have fun loving eachother again.
Providing our children with the space to live their own power (natural loving emanation) and joy is the most beautiful gift that can be given… Yes, it is crazy that we impose and lace our relationships with the emotional hurts and needs or expectations that we have taken on but when these are dropped, the love that is possible between anyone and everyone is abundantly rich and always there to be claimed. Thank you for sharing your letter with us all Janice.
So beautifully said Cherise , that when we truly drop our past hurts and issues, that then ” the love that is possible between anyone and everyone is abundantly rich and always there to be claimed.” I have and am still experiencing this in quite a few relationships with family and friends, and the richness in our lives now, resulting from this is just so lovely to behold.
I can feel the freedom you have given your children to be themselves. No greater gift.
Wow! – such depth of love, honesty and truth I felt you shared in your letter Janice to your family- us all.
So beauty-full and claimed .
Thank you Janice. I found this para to be an absolute standout: “Now I know that I have had the truth inside me all along. No one told me that; yet I also chose not to feel that for myself either. It has taken me quite some time to develop my awareness again of how I actually feel about everything and have always been able to feel, but how I have often disregarded what I was feeling in favour of what I was thinking or what others were telling me to think.” What you have written there so clearly, succinctly and responsibly describes how it is for all of us.
Thank you for highlighting that part Nicola. It’s an amazing point that rings a bell for me.
Wow Janice, what a truly outstanding and beautiful letter making visible with words how much you value yourself and your children. Observing with clarity the past, but living in the moment and cherishing every second of it. Amazing.
I love how you put this Michael – “Observing with clarity the past, but living in the moment and cherishing every second of it. ” Awesome way to start each day and keep living with this as our natural way of being.
Michael, amazing put! So beautiful x
Looks like your path is unfolding Janice in a beautiful way, I feel really privileged to have been able to read, learn and be inspired by your words
This is so beautiful Janice, thank you for sharing this letter to your children, I have tears in my eyes reading this, I can feel what a blessing this must be for your children.How lovely to express to them with these words, ‘You are amazing people. I feel your awareness and loveliness. You mean the world to me. Be gentle with yourselves. Don’t cap your joy. Your loving reflection is awesome.’ Wow!
‘It is about living gently in stillness and bringing a loving presence to every moment of every day.’ How gorgeous to parent our children from that stillness and loving presence. Whatever age they are, they will feel the benefits, it’s never too late.
Exactly Carmel – it is never too late, and what a relief it is to know that and move on, making loving choices in the fullness of who we are.
I can second that, Carmel, it’s never too late. Having experienced it myself over the last few years with an older relative, I am so appreciating the deepening and truer relating, it’s very heart-warming and brings a contentment in the relationship I would never have thought possible. And it also brings understanding to and heals past interactions which were not so harmonious, quite miraculous!
This is pure gold Janice Mooney. Parenting is difficult when coming from all the different cultural, religious, ideals or beliefs that exist. It is fraught with emotions and false boundaries. The love and care you offer not only your children, but yourself in writing this letter is incredibly healing.
Janice this is such a wonderful letter, so deeply honouring of yourself and of your children and such a joy to read. To read your willingness to nominate what you have felt from the past, what that was about, to renounce it and declare what you want going forward. Very beautiful and very inspiring.
This letter is as powerfull as it is honest. Thank you for sharing it with the rest of your family.
Pure inspiration: all parents could say this to their children AND all children to their parents!….
“Be gentle with yourselves. Don’t cap your joy. Your loving reflection is awesome.”
Actually, let’s all just express this to, and for, each other….that would definitely work!
What a beautiful letter for a Mum to send to her children, Janice. Not only do you share your awareness of how a past influence was harming, but in the writing of this, you also share the beauty of your rediscovered way of living in a very loving and completely gentle manner, without expectation, in the energy of Love. Truly gorgeous, Janice. I feel sure all parents would love to express so openly and honestly with their children and you offer the inspiration to do so.
When I read you comment Coleen I got a beautiful sense that Janine has come home to her love, and that we feel that by reading her blog we come home to our own love, we have been away from our love and now that we are back it feels like home.
This letter shows us how important it is to renounce our ill choices. It is like drawing a line in the sand so that more loving choices can be embraced.
Yes Elizabeth it is of vital importance that we renounce our ill choices and the best way to do this is by simply making new choice that come from the love that we are.
The understanding you bring to yourself and your past choices is really very beautiful. As I’m sure this resonated with your three children so too does it resonate with me as a mother also. Thank you for sharing this with us Janice.
It felt very healing to read this blog Janice. I felt like my own parents had written this to me and the love you share feels like it is for each and every one of us. Thank you.
I have experienced many times that trying to be better, or to show my worth through doing when often it is much more about how I am expressing, less pushing and more sharing my being. I could use the example recently of doing something for someone instead of actually expressing my true feelings. Therefore not wanting to have to make the effort to feel how I really am and express that but instead doing an action to cover that up. I would say this is a typical male way of living, where I can now see it takes courage to express with a depth of tenderness and care.
What a beautiful foundation you have laid for your family, Janice….so open, tender and honest. It really inspires me how freeing and unifying this felt. Your last two lines were written for us all and could have been written by God herself!
I like how you wrote “hope that you feel this release of my ‘energy’ on you as you make your own choices about your way of living” this really sums up the effect that we can have on our children, or anyone we have unresolved energy with. From personal experience at Sacred Esoteric Healing Level 2 and 3, I know the difference it makes when we choose to let go of things that have hurt us, and the new beginning it brings to relationships that we start a fresh with.
What I so love about these blogs, and it so beautifully captured in your letter Janice, is that so much of what we write in the deepening connection to our essence, our soul could be written by any one of us, and indeed to any one of us. Our flavours and experiences are unique. Some of us may have indulged in drugs, power plays, manipulation, good deeds – the array of choices is seemingly endless, but the net effect is the same. We lose ourselves, and it is form this loss that we heal, slowly, delicately, step-by-step. In reading your letter I understood another level of the truth that there can be no judgement, for how can we judge? Any points we choose to disparage in another, we are disparaging in ourselves.
Yes, beyond shadow of doubt, in our essence we are one.
This is beautiful Janice. Thank you for sharing the letter to your children with us.
How awesome for any child to hear from their parent – your words as expressed ‘You are amazing people. I feel your awareness and loveliness. You mean the world to me. Be gentle with yourselves. Don’t cap your joy. Your loving reflection is awesome.’
Words from a wise woman expressing truth from her heart. What a blessing and healing for your children to receive this letter.
Janice your last sentences “You are amazing people. I feel your awareness and loveliness. You mean the world to me. Be gentle with yourselves. Don’t cap your joy. Your loving reflection is awesome.” are beautifully touching. They are words to be heard by children, and grown adults, the world over. It is never too late to hear or deliver these words.
Thank you so much Janice for sharing that it is never too late to change and to regain “…. the truth inside me [all of us] all along.”
Your letter shows what power there is in humility and what healing can come from that. Thank you Janice Mooney.
We are all in this life to support each other and what a contribution you have made here Janice! This is brotherhood; when we begin to realise how our own hurts and contraction, impact on others and can conceal the fullness of another’s light and love. Thank you so much Janice.
It is so awesome that at a time of life when most people are resigned to life and how it is and how they are in it and looking to stay comfortable in keeping things the same, that you are still learning, growing, questioning and developing your self and your relationships in this way. Retirement does not have to mean ‘retire’ from life but you are showing here how no matter what age we can be fully committed to life and to our relationships and to ourselves.
So true Andrew, ‘Retirement does not have to mean ‘retire’ from life but you are showing here how no matter what age we can be fully committed to life and to our relationships and to ourselves.’ From what I have observed it is common for older people to say thats ‘just how I am’ and not want to change and evolve, many people get ‘stuck in their ways’, so it is beautiful to read that it is very possible to stay fully committed to life and that we can make changes no matter how old we are.
I agree, Andrew, I see many older people looking to keep their situation in life as it is, along with the expectation of younger people (especially their children) taking care of them – it’s like they are calling in what is ‘due’ to them, that others ‘owe’ them. They have worked hard all their lives and given up their true path for others, now it’s ‘their’ turn.
It’s inspirational that Janice is accepting true responsibility with both hands and heart and is willing to keep expanding and deepening awareness, very beautiful.
Janice, I feel tenderness and love in your letter to your children and all of us. It takes humility and honesty to acknowledge past hurts and choices, openly share these with your children and re-imprint your relationship with them is inspiring. We can all learn from this.
Thank you, Janice. Once we connect to the the truth of “how I actually feel about everything and have always been able to feel, but how I have often disregarded what I was feeling in favour of what I was thinking or what others were telling me to think”, we free ourselves to start again, with the inner knowing that has been there untapped all along. Your letter is a beautiful testament to ‘The Way of the Livingness’.
Janice, I feel deeply privileged that you have shared this letter to your children with us all. I feel this is a letter from the truth in all mothers, and something that all mothers in time will come to express in some form or other.
Wow Janice, this is very touching and very beautiful.
New beginnings at 64. Very inspiring Janice. You show us that it really is never too late to make new choices and reconnect with the love inside.
How wonderful it is for your children to receive such a beautiful letter, and to feel your amazing reflection.
I really enjoyed reading this and having two daughters of my own , I can relate to all the ‘doing’ and operating from many ideals and beliefs of what it meant to bring up children and how it should be done. If these types of conversations were our norm within our relationships, how different would society be.
Thank you Janice for sharing this letter that speaks to the heart of all, both children and parents alike. What you share reflects that we can at any age reclaim who we are. So beautiful that you felt to express this choice to your family and to share it with the world, it shows that this choice is possible for all equally.
Janice you have a deep dedication to humanity and to people. Many of us do but it is funny how we don’t trust our own connection and feelings about what that might be like and instead look outside of ourselves for the way to live, the way to be, the way to help. We disempower ourselves believing that we need to copy another’s example or fit in with others beliefs. Then we get entangled in the ideals and beliefs rather than just feeling the truth that inside us all, all along.
This letter is a letter for all mothers and for all children. Thanks Jan for expressing it so eloquently.
What a beautiful heartfelt letter Janice, thank you so much for sharing. I feel I may paste it onto my wall so that I pass it everyday to remind me of my own life and how awesome we are once we re-connect to our stillness and continue to choose love for ourselves. I find your letter, so lovingly written, supports me, and I am sure many others, in continuing on the path of self-love and I love the line “…It is an evolving way of living that never feels comfortable for very long as my soul has a constant way of inviting me to step up to another level of awareness”… How awesome is that!”, as this takes away any illusion of trying to be perfect, all of the time. Our own evolvement is ongoing and recognising the next step is a true blessing.
‘It is not about being perfect and then feeling guilty when I slip up. Those days are gone. It is about living gently in stillness and bringing a loving présence to every moment of every day.’ I feel this is super important because I have been so easily distracted by trying to be perfect and I loosed the plot as this was very imposing for my children to experience and it caused a lot of frustration in myself.
Janice, what a blessing that you have shared this letter to your children with the world. I am a mother myself and I feel you have expressed very gracefully what children need to hear, that we love them all the way by finding our way to love ourselves, that we make mistakes but what we offer them is the choice to be themselves, either from the start of their lives or later in life. Thank you so much for your openess and love, it is deeply felt.
This is an amazing letter for all of us as Naren said and it is a great way to reimprint our relationship with our children. Simply beautiful.
What a beautiful ending to a most awe-inspiring letter Janice – “Be gentle with yourselves. Don’t cap your joy. Your loving reflection is awesome.” I so feel this deep within me as if it also speaks to me. Thank you for your gorgeous sharing, it is so inspiring that I will also sit and write to my teenage children and express and offer them much greater and loving understanding of all that was, all that is and all that is to be.
So real and honest Janice, what a gift you have given to your children and grandchildren by writing this and letting go of so many ideas of who you thought you were. Now you offer not only them but everyone else around you a reflection of a woman who knows who she is.
This is such a beautiful transformation of your life you describe in this blog Janice, from living your hurts and scars life had caused to you to a life free of them and in connection with you soul. This proves that at any age or time in our live we can choose to let go of the what we are not and to choose for the love that is there for us to be lived. And the beautiful thing is that we do not have to feel guilty in any way shape or form about how we have lived as guilt is not known in the world of love, but does only exist in the institutionalised world we have created for ourselves.
What a powerful sentence this is that you said – “I want to renounce my past ways of mothering and claim my new ways of being a mum and now a grandmother in my fullness.” Fully claiming who you are now lovingly….so inspiring…taking responsibility for past choices. Thank you for sharing Janice.
Wow…what a letter. I could feel the love and truth in your writing, it touched my heart . This is absolutely gorgeous thing to do with your children. What a foundation, for you all and as a result of this letter, your children now have an awesome reflection, from you….. their beautiful mother, who honoured herself…….the power of honesty love and truth.
Wow, Janice, this is such a beautiful letter. Thank you so much for sharing. You have inspired me to prepare a letter to my sons. I had been planning to do it some time, but it keeps being put off. But no longer, it is up near the top of my ‘to do’ items now and I am feeling how important it is to do it very, very soon. I especially love this part, “I hope that you can feel the loving support I am offering you now that comes no longer laced with my hurts and issues or layers of attitudes, values and ideals. I hope that you feel this release of my ‘energy’ on you as you make your own choices about your way of living.” That is key, you are letting them know exactly how you feel about everything now, but you are leaving it totally up to THEIR choices about how they want to live their lives.
Yes this letter is for us all.
I cant help but feel the immense healing your children have received by you expressing this to them. It is very beautiful.
Thank you, Janice, for sharing your letter. It’s beautiful to feel the equalness between you and your children. And I feel so honoured and inspired to be exposed to the level of openness and honesty available between a parent and children, even when it had not always been that way.
Absolutely beautiful. Thank you for sharing this Janice, I could feel your words deeply.
How absolutely stunning. There is such clarity in this letter and such claiming of your worth and who you truly Soulfully are Janice. I would dearly love to hear from your children in response – how many mothers are prepared to present such soulful truth to their children? You are leading the way.
A lovely letter Janice and I like the way you described so beautifully the consequences of self-love
I love that this letter is a claiming of where you are now and how you choose to live going forward. Although you mention the past, there is no guilt and self-bashing – it is what it is, and now you have a deeper awareness. Thank you for sharing it with all of us.
Simply beautiful to read Janice – hearts melting everywhere.
Absolutely beautiful Janice. I am left feeling beautifully at peace with myself.
Wow, what a heart felt letter to your sons Janice, it is really beautiful, very honest and very loving. I know how much our hurts can get in the way of expressing the love that we feel. but you have shown how much you have healed them by expressing so honestly in your blog.
This is truly healing for us all Janice. I could feel reading your letter that this is the truth for many of us, as we have all been in relationships with children as adults, and as children with adults. Through your openness I feel a deeper understanding within me of how these relationships have played out, honoring less that who we truly are. Thank you for sharing so honestly and reclaiming the truth of the love that we divinely are, through which we all inspire each other to return to and live.
This feels like a letter that needs to be read a few times because it is such a honest sharing and revealing of how much we can lace onto others when we come from our hurts and ideals and belief. Thank you of sharing this with us and how you are choosing to live differently now.
We can all so clearly feel when truth is spoken, and when it comes laced with imposed ideals and beliefs… your children would have felt and known the love that you are from the very beginning Janice.
Totally blown away with the love and honestly shared Janice. I am crying as I too am a mother of 7 who did not mother from what I know to be true in my heart. Your children and grandchildren are blessed to have you choosing the Way of the Livingness at 64 as its never too late to connect back to truly who we are.
What a amazing letter this would be for all of us to receive from our parents, a re-imprinting and freeing from the role’s that parents play, and a true and fresh way of relating, thank you Janice.
The claiming of the truth you now live, from the love you are Janice is awesome to feel. Thank you for sharing this letter – a confirmation of the deepest care you hold for all.
This is deeply moving Janice, I feel like it is for everyone, not just your children.
“I feel to say that by firstly having self-care, self-nurturing, and self-loving rhythms in my day as to what I eat and drink, how I sleep, talk, move, dress etc. has reawakened my awareness of the truths I know within me and always have. This is my way of getting clarity with my living choices from now on. My four beautiful grandchildren reflect this truth to me from their souls.” it is our first responsibility to feel our feelings. thank you for sharing.
This is a beautiful letter written for all children from all parents. To be so honoured at any age can never be too late. The love and support you are offering to your children is very touching.
Janice I feel that your powerful letter could be adapted to fit most relationships. The key phase that you used ‘came with an energy that was full of my un-cleared hurts’ is what propels most of us into the vast majority (if not all) of our relationships. We lug our suitcases of past hurts around and unpack the shabby mess in the bedrooms of all of those that we are in relationship with. How many of us can say that our marriages are free of needs, that our relationships with our parents are free of needs and as for our relationships with our kids, wholly schmolly it’s Need central !
Well expressed Alexis Stewart. The feeling of the suitcases being lugged around full of our un-cleared hurts is powerful and unfortunately true until we choose differently.
I am still laughing with this sentence – “wholly schmolly it’s Need central !”
Yes this is a beautiful sharing that shows there’s always the opportunity to express and bring love and understanding. “I want to renounce my past ways of mothering and claim my new ways of being a mum and now a grandmother in my fullness” an immense support indeed.
Thank you Janice for sharing your letter. Your words here beautifully celebrate your return to you. It can be easy to get caught in the roles and duties of life and loose connection with ourselves, but we are never far away.
“Now I know that I have had the truth inside me all along.”
Wow, what an amazing letter! To meet your children with such honesty and clarity of what was at play in the past and to reimprint your relationship with them with such truth and love is a beautiful gift. Thank you for sharing and inspiring me Janice.
Very beautiful to read Janice, I love to feel how tender you are with yourself and how embracing you are off your past choices. This is a blessing to read. Thank you.
and very refreshing and a learning for all mothers. To let go of the hurts and start afresh with love and no guilt with their children. A beautiful way to build strong truth filled relationships without imposition.
A mother who does her best to not impose on her children but instead to love them directly from her heart. Now that is amazing and super inspiring. Thank you.
I agree Robyn. As mothers, speaking from my experience- we do not even consider that we were imposed upon or could possibly be imposing on our children. It wasn’t until I was introduced to energetic awareness and responsibility that I realised I carried hurts, beliefs and ideals that was stopping me from being all I am in my heart. I am sure every mother would choose to love and parent from their heart if they did not have hurts just as every child would choose to be parented by an adult in their heart.
It is gorgeous that you have deeply felt the woman that you are behind the role of mother you played and chose to reimprint your relationship with your children by showing them what you now choose for yourself. Your honesty is inspiring as is your ability to let go of the past and any guilt and embrace what you now know to be true and present that without expectation allowing your children to truly feel who you are and the love you are now living and holding them in. Awesome.
This is beautifully said and right on the money Samantha ‘you have deeply felt the woman that you are behind the role of mother’ and from this blog a very gorgeous, strong, honest and loving woman.
Beautifully said Janice and Samantha!
Beautifully said Samantha, to feel the woman we are behind the role of mother or any other role we play is deeply nurturing and healing. Living true to who we are then offers everyone, children, friends, family, the reflection that is on offer when one drops roles and starts living from the love and grandness we know to be our true way.
Beautifully expressed Samantha – being able to discern the truth of ‘who we are’ from the roles we that we have chosen to play out in our lives is key to our true healing.
“you have deeply felt the woman that you are behind the role of mother you played”
What a gorgeous gift for your children to receive, and thank-you Janice, for feeling to share this letter with us all. And thank-you to Universal Medicine for reawakening so many to the understanding that we all, each and everyone of us have the potential to connect to our amazing selves, no matter what hurts we carry or ideals and beliefs we have been brought up to believe in. I wholeheartedly agree Universal Medicine is absolutely awesome.
Deidre, I agree with all you have said here. This is a truly amazing gift Janice has given her children and a beautiful sharing with us all. I too thank Universal Medicine and especially Serge Benhayon for being such a great friend to us all and sharing with us so much that has so many of us now living the wonderful lives that we are now experiencing. We have learned to be our true selves now, still very much a work in progress for many of us, but so very worthwhile.
Beautifully said Deidre and I agree “each and everyone of us have the potential to connect to our amazing selves”.
Esoteric Healing Level 2 was a powerful experience for me, healing my childhood hurts was massive and it was a huge turning point for me. What I realised at this course was that I had capped my joy from a very young age to not allowing myself to be who I am. This realisation brought up a huge amount of sadness for me to feel and release. At the end of the course I was able to truly feel the joy in my body, an experience I will never forget, as I now know it has always been there and I can choose to live and express it. It was after this course that I started to really commit to changing my old patterns and to reconnect to who I am, giving myself permission to be joyful and love again.
WOW Janice, this letter is a LOVE BOMB! K A B O O M !
How humbling to let go of those influences you may have imposed upon your children in the knowing that you were living less than the love you are. Im sure that letter would have released so much for them and for you but equally so strengthen the love that is there with you all, simply from your honesty. A truly inspiring letter that confirms so much about you Janice.
Amazing letter Janice, thank you for sharing this with us. Your words are deeply inspiring, honest and healing. What a blessing it is for your children to receive. ‘Don’t cap your joy.’ This was exactly what I did before I embraced The Way of The Livingness. Now, I am learning to live with gentleness, love, truth and joy.
“Don’t cap your joy” – absolutely gorgeous.This reminded me of something that happened yesterday. As my son was making the bed yesterday I was feeling stressed and trying to get some work done. I had spoken to him rudely. He continued making the bed singing a song he made up up with the words “no one can take the joy out of me”. It stopped me in my tracks, brought me back and it was such a gorgeous thing to witness.
Nikki, I love reading your comment about your son’s song “no one can take the joy out of me”.
What a beautiful way to be ‘stopped in your tracks’ and be offered the opportunity to choose differently in that moment.
This letter Janice, is a very beautiful read, which holds simple, loving, living truths for all to feel and choose. You pave a gorgeous way forward with your words. Thank-you.
Hear Hear Julie – so true – indeed a way forward by a great example!
Janice, what an awesome and deeply feeling letter. I can feel that this is what I would love to say to my children- your letter feels like it is for all children. Amazing and thank you.
So true Anne, it is such a healing for us all. (Adults and children!)
By sending this letter you sent a letter on behalf of all the mums to all the children. It is never too late to change your life, make loving choices and express truth to others.
Most definitely Monika – Janice’s letter to her children is Universal.
There are not many conversations between parents and children like this, which is a shame because they are so much lighter than the blaming that can occur when discussing ones upbringing. To actually be willing to say ‘I wasn’t providing a loving foundation for you then, but now I renounce those old ways and choose to start anew’ is pretty cool. Because no matter how old our children or parents may be it’s never too late to start practicing the expressions of gentleness, honesty and love.
Absolutely, Leigh, there would be very few families that would have been sent a letter such as Janice has sent to her children. But maybe there will be a few more after this wonderful example. I grew up in a family where there was none of this sort of connection, and as a result, yes, I followed suit with my children. I so feel so sad about this now, but I did not know any better. I have been much more open with them now, but what a great idea Janice has used to sent such a great letter, she has renounced all that past energy, and cleared so much for her children in sharing this with them. So beautiful to see and read of.
Absolutely agree Leigh Matson there could be far more conversations in relationships that have self-responsibility and honesty in them. It is so easy to point the finger somewhere else or at someone else but so very healing for everyone if we take responsibility for our part in creating the reality that we do not like or feel is not true or loving.
That’s so true Leigh and thank God – it’s never too late “to start practicing the expressions of gentleness, honesty and love”.
I feel that too Leigh, there is not many parents who can talk this openly with their children (whatever age they may be), being open without any need to be defensive for perceived past wrongdoings. Janice is leading the way, how to re-evaluate our lives and how our choices have affected others, and to make a choice if this is the way we want to continue to operate – or not. Janice has found a new depth to go to, allowing such beautiful honesty and love to come forth, and expressing that without holding back. It’s a true blessing for us all.
Yes Leigh and its also inspiring to see that we don’t have to settle for the way things are just because we have been doing them for a long time. Old patterns are hard to break especially between children and parents. Janice is now offering her children a new way to be simply by making self-loving choices for herself.
So true Leigh, it is never too late to start from scratch and to claim the love we are and to improve our relationship with other people.
Leigh there are not many conversations where we honestly share. It would change humanity and our well being if we spoke our truth and the truth was able to be heard, our relationships would evolve enormously.
Janice, it takes A LOT of courage and Love to admit what you have and move on. What a great letter for your children to receive and also for them to feel the release of being free to live their own way without any impositions. We don’t realise how our unresolved issues and needs and hurts can impose on others and your graceful way of dealing with this Janice brings tears to my eyes. Thank you.
Thank you Janice, yes, this letter could have been written by me and for me too and I suggest will eventually be a script that everyone could use or read. That’s profound really to realize that most of humanity could relate to your words.
I so agree Susan – I can deeply feel all Janice has written – as if it was written for me…
Janice there is no doubt that your children will feel the amazing mum you are, having left behind all your “hurts and issues or layers of attitudes, values and ideals.” The readers of your letter are also partaking in the radiance that is now you.
Yes and how incredibly freeing for our grown children when we absolve ourselves as parents from responsibility for the love they choose for themselves – they are then free to renounce blame and accept responsibility for their own love as adults themselves, just as Janice has done for herself. A very beautiful flow-on effect of the choices made towards love.
Wow this is such a beautiful and healing letter that you wrote here on behalf of everybody. Thank you Janice for your absolute dedication to love.
Thank you Janice for sharing this with us all. A beautiful letter of love and appreciation.
That is a deeply beautiful love letter to your children that is just so rich with joy and allowance. I can read how you respect them and hold them as equal, and in such great love. The honesty with which you write, allowing yourself to be seen as a tender, delicate, imperfect woman who is full of joy is flowing through you. Thank you for sharing this letter.
Indeed it is Hannah and your expression is equally beautiful.
I agree Hannah, Janice has shared with her children and all of us a true love letter. There is not one ounce of hooking emotion, and it holds the reader in absolute love and equalness.
Indeed Hannah – it is a letter for all of us to enjoy and learn from, it is honest, real and very relatable. Allowing imperfection in our lives is a lesson that cannot be repeated often enough.
Wow what a powerful gift for yourself and your children.
What a beauty-full blessing it is for you and your children to have you begin to make these changes in your life and open up to such healing. The learnings in these courses definitely go way beyond just benefitting ourselves, they are a true healing for everyone we bring our expanded livingness to.
That’s so true Joshua. That’s also what I love about these courses….it is never solely about the individual, it is about the contribution we make to humanity through our choices to care for ourselves, forgive ourselves and love and appreciate ourselves.
Janice the letter that you have shared is incredible for so many reasons. Incredible because it reflects where you are and what you have had to do in order to get there; Incredible because it offers your children healing and evolution and incredible because it speaks for most parents in the world. Truly beautiful.
I love the simplicity of this line: “Now I know that I have had the truth inside me all along.” It is like the lights go on and we see what we have been holding all along – sheer beauty. Truth never leaves us; it is us who depart from truth we hold forever in our hearts.
Yes Liane and we are blessed to have Serge Benhayon and all that Universal Medicine has to offer leading us to that very light switch!
Yes, Michelle – this is my experience too – thank God, something inside me said yes to being open, willing and deeply inspired to respond to the presentations by Serge Benhayon, Universal Medicine and the countless other students who also have felt the truth and huge blessings from this.
Me too Michelle and now it’s time to light the way for the rest of humanity.
…because it is the Divine chorus 🙂
We can only renounce our unloving ways when we have accepted in full that they have not served either others or ourselves. When we are able to take responsibility for our past choices, we allow a humility to surface that has not an ounce of apology but sings with a love that has been given permission to flourish once more. The more we surrender to this, the more full we become of ‘that which we are’ and in so doing, the past lived as ‘that which we are not’ is transmuted to the quality in which we now stand. It is an act of grace to witness a mother writing to her children in this light. Thank you Janice, for sharing this with us.
I love what you have shared here Lianne, thank you.
Well said Liane, the reawakening of ones soul is a lived experience and does not require an apology but instead a steady way forward that all can feel and and be inspired by.
The soul does not beat itself up for what has been lived in the past. The steady way forward is walked with love.
Beautiful what you share here Liane. It offers the truth that love is responsibility. To be responsible for our choices and accept what has served humanity and with this us and what not we walk the path of our true divine origins. Life is not about getting it right, but living truth and love can only come from truth. That way responsibility is the beauty of embracing always love and not holding on to anything that we have chosen in the past. That way we render individuality naught and always offer a true reflection. Janice writing is an act of grace that floods the world with love.
I love what you have written here Rachel, ‘responsibility is the beauty of embracing always love and not holding on to anything we have chosen in the past.’ This simple phrase really sings to me this morning, thank you.
Until we renounce our unloving ways as you have said Liane the legacy of our past will just be perpetuated. It is never to late to come back to the love we all are.
I really love how you said this Liane: “… we allow a humility to surface that has not an ounce of apology but sings with a love that has been given permission to flourish once more. ” Yes, permission to flourish ONCE MORE – as it was always there, just not in full bloom.
Agreed Karina, these word are truly uplifting, for there is no regret, no blame or judgement, but a celebration of our return to truth.
Liane, I appreciate the love that I feel in your words in comment to Janice, and the words that shine for me in this moment are “When we are able to take responsibility for our past choices, we allow a humility to surface that has not an ounce of apology but sings with a love that has been given permission to flourish once more.” To feel the depth of this wisdom around the words ‘humility’ and ‘apology’ as a clarification is quite profound I find. I feel that sentence to be so amazing.
It is beautiful what Liane shares, and the sentence, ‘“When we are able to take responsibility for our past choices, we allow a humility to surface that has not an ounce of apology but sings with a love that has been given permission to flourish once more.” is amazing.
This is beautiful Liane. The way you describe humility without an ounce of apology is so gorgeous and so perfectly demonstrated in all Janice has expressed.
Beautifully said Liane and hence why there is no need to get caught up in guilt and shame.
Written with such deep wisdom Liane.
So beautifully expressed Liane as here you have presented the blueprint that far outweighs any need to apologize. You have clearly outlined the importance of setting love back in motion where it has been absent in past actions. The very act of this transmutes all into the quality of the love that we are.
Whatever page I am on Liane there is another loving comment of yours. This is beautiful example.
“When we are able to take responsibility for our past choices, we allow a humility to surface that has not an ounce of apology but sings with a love that has been given permission to flourish once more. The more we surrender to this, the more full we become of ‘that which we are’ and in so doing, the past lived as ‘that which we are not’ is transmuted to the quality in which we now stand”. You are living proof that the more love you have the more love you have to give away.
You have captured something profound here, Lianne, thank you – “we allow a humility to surface that has not an ounce of apology but sings with a love that has been given permission to flourish once more”. There is nothing more beautiful than this surrender, to accept the past and embrace the new dawn of who we truly are.
Also beautifully said Janet… ‘There is nothing more beautiful than this surrender, to accept the past and embrace the new dawn of who we truly are.’ This captures what Janice has shared so profoundly in her letter and we are all graced by that. It is so true that love is spherical, although this letter is for her children, it is in fact felt by everyone equally, if they allow it.
I can really feel what you have shared. That we can ‘only renounce unloving ways when we have ACCEPTED IN FULL that they have not served either others or ourselves’. That makes perfect sense and brings a responsibility to be honest and feel everything that is going on for us.
A very lovely point Liane, that the ‘what is not’ is transmuted to the quality in which we now stand. And I also agree it is an act of grace to witness a mother writing to her children in this light. It is a beautiful expression of love in it’s enormous humbleness, without personal judgement, but an offering to accept not only the past but what is now on offer from the fullness Janice is now living.
Your whole comment is worth quoting Liane – amazing strength in your words. They have come straight from Heaven through your vehicle of expression. Janice and yourself Liane have captured the presence of Love that we all want and do anything to have. Love is the intelligence and the Will of God – it is there in any moment just as long as you surrender and align to the Soul.
Ah yes Martin, thank you. We are always in service – either to that which is love or, that which is not. And so, our behaviours in turn serve us, in accordance to what we have chosen.
That certainly simplifies matters Liane – there are only 2 streams or paths to choose from in every situation – love or not love.
Beautifully expressed Liane, thank you.
Liane your words ” given permission to flourish’ is delightful and exactly expresses the evolution we can choose as we surrender and grow.
It’s never too late to let go of past influences and hurts and begin to truly live again.
Yes Jaime, such a stunning example by MAS.
What a privilege to have been able to read your so wise and loving words to your children. Thank you for sharing Janice.
I totally agree Leigh, reading Janice’s wise andloving words to her children is an absolute privelege.
It is a privilege Leigh. I would like to thank her children also for being open and allowing her mum to publicly publish a personal intimate letter to her children. What courage Janice has to first take accountability in full, and then publish it for all to read. It is evident how much joy Janice is feeling for her life and turning it back into who she is and how she wants to live. Deeply inspiring!
Dear Janice Mooney – what can I say – I feel so moved by your heartfelt letter to your grown children. The reflection of your letter shows me that it is never to late to re-imprint the true love that we are. Thank you.
What you said Roberta is beautiful and spot on.
Thank you Janice for sharing your experiences, love and wisdom.
Gorgeous and so true Roberta – it is never too late.
SO true Roberta, knowing and understanding that it is never too late to re-imprint anything with anyone. I agree that Janice’s letter to hear grown children reflects exactly that.
What a letter. The letter that all children and parents alike can relate to and appreciate. As you say Roberta, it is never ever too late to make changes.
Within the letter iI felt such an appreciation and equality, no judgement – just love. The falsity in the saying “you can’t teach an old dog new tricks” springs to mind as anyone can choose to change their entire life at any point. As you say Vicky a letter everyone can relate to.
Dear Roberta, I agree, it’s never to late to stop and feel, if what we have been doing is true or not, and to open up and explore another way, especially The Way of The Livingness, as brought back to us by Serge Benhayon and Universal Medicine.
I can most definitely feel your loving support Jan, this is such a gorgeous letter I am touched you have shared it with so many.
Yes so beautiful – it also touched me deeply. And so awesome to share it with so many people.
I am touched by the deep honesty you share with your family Janice. There is no ideal of needing to be ‘right’ as the parent – but simply you, as the woman you are expressing your love.
Gorgeous.
That is very gorgeous indeed. There is no playing the game of I’m-the-parent-therefore-I-know-best. There is no pride and no attachment to self. That alone is a beautiful gift to our children and an incredible reflection for all.
Great comment Kylie, it is so easy to get caught up by the “right” way to be a parent, we are bombarded to how to parent. Yet, in reality it is so simple, live responsibly and lovingly and you will know how to parent each of your children exactly how they need. There is no rule of thumb just the ability to connect and take responsibility for self.
I agree Abby – this blog by Janice Mooney is truly an unexpected gift for us all from a letter that was prepared intimately for the family. I feel the sense of one-ness and that we are all family perhaps in some cases exploring how we may re-imprint that which was not a true way of showing/sharing love in the past as we now through choice and through re-connection to our truth within been developing our awareness, and retracing our steps as we are wending our way back to our true selves once again.
How amazing Janice to be where you are today….of being open enough to feel the truth and have the courage to work through your hurts to be on this journey so that your family (and you) can come to know the beauty of the woman you truly are.
It is a really beautifull heartfelt letter and a blessing for us all. I agree with what Deborah has shared in how amazing and lovely it is to hear and feel where Janice is today. It is a true celebration. This really stood out in the letter to me ‘Now I know that I have had the truth inside me all along. No one told me that; yet I also chose not to feel that for myself either.’ How many of us (millions!) ignore what we feel in that there is a Truth and Love not being expressed in ourselves and others. We are playing a sad game of I will only show you a part of me as you are only showing a part of you. We need to wake up and give ourselves permission to shine and be all that we are. Thank goodness for Serge Benhayon and Universal Medicine who reflect out to us the Truth and Love we have boxed away and put in the corner. There is so much more than what we are currently living.
It’s true Vicky, we ignore, bury, cover up the fact that we do know that the truth lies within us all. Lifetimes of adhering to the spirits plan of deception got blown open when Serge Benhayon stepped up and shared the truth for us to connect to once again. There is much to be grateful for, and also much to celebrate and appreciate, that we have chosen to overcome our perceived shortcomings and are now prepared to stand up for truth and love in our lives once again.
I love your comment Jo, there is much to celebrate, appreciate, and be grateful for now we have chosen to overcome our perceived shortcoming, ‘and are now prepared to stand up for truth and love in our lives once again.’
So true Jo the ‘ spirit’ has had a field day with humanity, leading us off the path, it will only be when we speak honestly and openly of the devastation, and corruption we currently are allowing that humanity will begin to realise we have been led. There is much to celebrate as this true path of return is much sought by many and the tipping point is building.
It is amazing when you think about it that really we all know deep down that ‘there is so much more than we are currently living’ and yet we don’t live this for a variety of reasons – the biggest of which is probably fear of taking responsibility for what that will mean. So we all settle for the pain of being less colluding with each other all over the place and it takes someone like Serge Benhayon to come along and break us out of it and remind us that there is another way.
Agreed Josephine , we do all know and as I remember what it felt like as a very young child I know, clear as day, that I could feel everything in my body. Then I spent a lot of time , many years , covering all of that purity, innocent and beauty up – it wasn’t honoured in the world , so I went to join the other. How beautiful it is to return to myself , and eternal thanks to Serge Benhayon for reminding me of what I had totally forgotten.
Brilliant Josephine, ultimately it all comes down to whether we are prepared to be responsible or not.
So true Josephine, it is the fear of what it will mean to take responsibility that stops us from taking responsibility! Crazy. Not taking responsibility hurts ourselves and others so much more.
Beautiful, Vicky Crooke, indeed, what an amazing letter Janice has shared with us, expressing what she has been able to learn and how she is re-imprinting her life at this later stage in life, knowing it is so worth it. Thank God for Serge Benhayon and Universal Medicine, who have brought this and so much more to Janice and to me and to anybody who is willing to stop and re-connect, with a true willingness to be honest and open.
It does take courage to be honest about how we have been, and are being when that is not loving. I really appreciate that about Janice’s sharing.
I too feel that this is very courageous, being honest, getting aware and then also expressing to one’s own children where we have not been truthful and loving in all the years of parenting. It is a healing for the present, past and future relationship.
Yes and it teaches children the value of being honest. We ask that of them so the least we can do it walk the talk. It takes courage though because we have to address the fear of not being perfect, of being fallible and of being accountable and that, I suspect, is what takes trust that we will be ok. Self love and respect for others are two good first steps.
Its a big step to be able to review ones parenting in the past and reflect on the mistakes – not a step many of us are very willing to take. But the beauty is in providing you all – Mum and Kids alike with a fresh opportunity to clear the old hurts out of the cupboard and start afresh, with more wisdom, more understanding and more love.
Very true Vanessa to truly heal it takes a great deal of courage and ultimately responsibility. For us to be honest about how we are living and how that impacts on others is the greatest inspiration to heal there is.
It is amazing Deborah, to read and feel the clarity of Janice’s words and not imposing in any way towards how her children choose to grow and offer them to take responsibility themselves.
Lovely Deborah that is a very beautiful appreciation – it only feels wunderbar.
I love that no matter where we are from around the world the key to life is the same – love, appreciation and responsibility 🙂
Beautifully said Deborah. Janice your blog is stunning, and as so many have said it is for everyone. How gorgeous though that you have taken the time to write this to your children and to then share it with everyone. That you have indeed had the courage to look at and feel your own hurts in order to clear the way for you and your children and grandchildren to know who you truly are, and how blessed are we all to feel your true beauty and true expression. I am inspired to do the same for my own children. Thank you
Yes agreed Sandra, Janice has paved the way for what true parenting is. To lead by example and not by a set of rules and dictations.
Thank you Janice for sharing this letter. As a mother of younger children I have the opportunity to bring the awareness on how to support and raise my kids best as I was fortunate as you to come across the teachings of Universal Medicine and Serge Benhayon. What he teaches is what I have known all along but did not connect to as much as now. It does not matter that your children have already grown up, you will always be their mother and you can re-imprint your relationship as you are doing now. Inspiring!
This is so true Richard, ‘In a sense I feel it makes a mockery of time as we shift old patterns as if they never really existed!’ There is an idea that as we get older things are hard to change and that we have been this way for so long and it will will be impossible to change certain behaviours and ways of being, but as this article demonstrates if there is a willingness and a commitment then old, long held patterns and beliefs can shift and be re-imprinted.
Agreed, lifting the fog of the illusionary ideals and beliefs in which we encase ourselves is a beautiful, humbling process. And is ongoing for as our awareness grows we uncover yet another layer of self deceit to be released.
I love that – “it makes a mockery of time as we shift old patterns as if they never really existed”. So very true. The saying “You can’t teach an old dog new tricks” is absolute rubbish!
As you say Martin “life is still worth living,” and even at 64 years of age we can continue to evolve and refine our way of being. I am a different person from even last year much less 10 years ago as I continue to learn and evolve. As an elder we do ourselves a great disservice in considering retirement as a time to sit back and smell the roses… We are the elders and with that carry a responsibility to be present, engaged as the next generation needs our support and love. If we flake off the balance is not there we are all integral to the whole. But back to your letter Janice how supportive that you claim the essence of who you are and the journey you are on and inviting them along if they choose, an elder leading the way.
Richard it is beautiful how we have the power to re-imprint our pass on an energetic level. This just confirms there is nothing we cannot heal, anything and everything can be re-imprinted, how beautiful and confirming this is.
True Richard, we have been made to believe that dealing with our past has to be difficult, challenging and time consuming. That we have to do the hard yards to undo our past. The Way of the Livingness is so simple it can seem confusing. We have gotten used to life being complicated and when the simplicity is presented we question it because of the belief that life has to be hard.
So true what you’ve all shared here, it can appear complicated and difficult to let go of the past but what The way of the Livingness brings is a simplicity that the body knows how to let go because it’s the one holding onto the past! It holds all our energetic choices – from experience this is very, very literal. Just as we would walk a certain way when holding a large box or object the body moves in a certain way when it is holding onto behaviours and patterns (the most obvious being the behaviour repeats and continues) just like for as long as we choose to hold the box. Once we become aware of how holding our body in that way feels (image that we were not aware that we are carrying a large box) and let go – all those years of holding on mean nothing.
I have loved living in our home and family life what I have learnt through Universal Medicine and the inspiration of Serge Benhayon and his family. We have had all sorts of adventures … good, bad, and a little ugly at times, but we have learnt so much about each other along the way. I am inspired by my children every day and I know that it would have been very different had I not had that inspiration all those years ago.
Wow, and another wow, what can I say to this other than just deeply feel your words and sit with them. Absolutely beautiful and so honest, thank you.
Agreed Janice’s sharing is very inspiring. To feel we can let go of the past without any guilt or shame and just fully embrace the learning is truly divine.
Hi John O Connell here from Ireland thanks you Janice , it’s so great you have not allowed pride to prevent you expressing to your kids and family in the truth you have recovered that will be a service to all .
Yes well said John, it’s quite exquisite isn’t it to read about someones life, who has now chosen differently and to accept and share so tenderly and openly that the previous way of living was flawed and not true and came with such loading. To accept responsibility that you brought it (without giving yourself a hard time) and are now choosing differently. So simple, so loving and so profound.
Change is very easy when you are willing to be honest. Such was the ease in Janice’s beautiful sharing.
Yes Sarah it is exquisite. I also love what John has said about not letting pride get in the way of that conversation. Grace is a wonderful thing to have in the parenting toolbox.
I agree John, putting ‘pride’ aside can be a big call and it is immensely liberating to free ourselves by being honest to the core and then being able to express it. Janice has done this and the ripples of her love will be felt widely.
This is a great point you make here John about pride as it is our pride about having got things wrong, been fooled and having made a mistake that can stop us from letting go and admitting destructive behaviours and being honest about the way that we may have harmed others.
This is a letter to us all, Janice. Thank you so much for writing it and sharing it.
its true Naren, we could all be writing this letter to all of us.
So true Naren and Joel.
Agreed Joel and Naren, and writing this letter could also include writing this letter to ourselves…
Naren, Joel, when I read this I felt it was a letter for everyone I had ever known, everyone who may have been influenced by me before I accepted soul as my mentor and guide
Yes Catherine it is indeed a letter for everyone, and as you say so beautifully ‘everyone who may have been influenced by me before I accepted soul as my mentor and guide’.
Naren yes, I felt like I was receiving this letter from my mother and as a mother I could also have written it . Janice has expressed exactly the same past that I totally related to and no longer live. Beautiful to read and feel from a true mother/mum.
Yes, Merrilee “Beautiful to read and feel from a true mother/mum.”
I agree Naren, this letter is not just to Janice’s children, it is to humanity. Just gorgeous.
Janice’s letter is a healing for humanity.
Beautifully put Naren it is indeed a letter to us all as it encapsulates the choice we all have to reclaim the truth and fullness of who we are.
Agree Naren. A beautiful sharing that could be to all of us. It touched me deeply and it was lovely to feel how Janice is not beating herself up about her previous choices, but stepping forward with the new ones she is now making.
Yes that’s what stood out for me also Debra, that Janice does not judge herself for what she chose in the past but openly renounces it taking responsibility for her own choices at the same time offering understanding for her children and a reflection of love and a new living way.
Well said and that is what I got as well, not beating herself up but making a choice to move on, then it doesn’t add any self pity to the equation.
I agree, Debra, and that stood out for me. It’s not about giving ourselves a hard time for our past choices, as we always have a choice to step towards self love and thus, love for others.
It is a letter to us all Naren, but it is also a letter to our children. I have done the same as Janice. And I am still renouncing my old ways of mothering and exploring the true ones.
I too, am renouncing my old ways of mothering and looking to the light within each of three beautiful (now adult) children and releasing them fully to expand. It is time to fully trust God’s Plan which I know is inclusive of us all.
I couldn’t agree more Naren – this letter is a tribute to everyone and the grandness of who we truly are, equally so.
Thank you Janice. Yes I agree Naren, it is deeply healing to read.
I agree Naren, thank you for sharing Janice, now we all just have to put those words into action!
Very much so Naren, this letter is for everyone which shows — when we open up our hearts in full and express love it can never be personal or exclusive. When we express love in full it’s for all.
Wise words Katerina — “when we open up our hearts in full and express love it can never be personal or exclusive. When we express love in full it’s for all.”
I love what you have shared here Katerina. Expressing from our truth opens up the gates for all. No one is excluded. When we live and express with love it is for all.
So true Narren, a reflection of how Janice has opened up to be in love with humanity.
It is true Naran, a healing for one is a healing for all. Janice’s love can be felt by all
I agree Naren, written to all of us and all relationships.
Thats true Naren , a letter of evolution to humanity.