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A Man’s True Tenderness – a Woman’s Sharing
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A Man’s True Tenderness – a Woman’s Sharing

By Nicole Serafin · On May 1, 2014

Until recently, I had previously only ever felt a man’s true tenderness once in my life; a tenderness where there is no holding back, no protection or guard, just pure love and adoration, for not only themselves but also another.

To experience a man’s true tenderness is nothing short of amazing and exquisite – to feel the absolute joy in them, the expression of and being of gentleness, no holding back from all that they are.

There is a strength within this tenderness, without any hardness.

Observing such a different way of being in the men in and around my life, knowing and feeling there was a tenderness within, but that it was not being lived or expressed, I felt there was a fear that if their tenderness was let out for anyone to see, they would be seen as weak.

Why do we as a society support and allow men to be all that they are not when they are truly beauty-full?

Growing up, we are led to believe that this is just how things are; a given, an ideal so to speak, that we do not question. It becomes a part of us – a consciousness you could say – that boys and girls, men and women are not just separated by gender but also by clothes, colours, hairstyles, career choices, etc.

Nowhere do we allow or support a man to grow up being able to express what he is feeling.

Why should women be the only ones allowed to express, to be gentle and to nurture, while men are supposed to be hard, tough, the one who is always the rock? Is there something here that maybe we have taken for granted?

What if there is more to men than what we allow them to be?

Could it be possible to allow ourselves to feel that men are equally as tender as women, and that perhaps the life they are living is not truly the way they could be living?

Is it possible that underneath that hard, tough exterior is an amazing quality, a feeling of tenderness that is so special it needs to be nurtured, encouraged and supported by us as women so that quality can be expressed?

If you have ever felt the true tenderness of a man, this is a question that does not even need to be asked.

We all deserve to live nothing less than the tenderness that we are, men included.

To suppress and ignore this tenderness is robbing society of a true beauty, unlike any other.

I have experienced a man’s true tenderness in conversation, in passing and simply in their presence. It is truly inspirational and amazing.

To all the men in the world; you shine equally as do we all, let your tenderness be seen and felt… for you are all truly magnificent.

That men now have the opportunity to feel and be this true tenderness has been made possible, and is supported by, the work and livingness of Universal Medicine and Serge Benhayon. I thank you Serge for being the tender and glorious man that you are and that you live and reflect for all to see, feel and be inspired by. For it is this livingness that allows others to also connect to the tenderness they are and bless us all, equally so.

By Nicole Serafin, Australia

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Nicole Serafin

Living in Tintenbar with my amazing husband and three beautiful children. Life is simple, uncomplicated and full of magical moments everywhere I look. Birds chirping, kookaburras singing and kids playing outside chasing each other around and around, making me dizzy at times but still glorious to watch. Not a moment goes by where I do not stop to appreciate all that I am, who we are as individuals and how we are together as a family, truly glorious in every way.

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266 Comments

  • Mary says: March 10, 2020 at 5:29 pm

    Just feeling and knowing that men can be tender and gentle too is a step in the right direction. I had not had this experience of tenderness, gentleness and such warmth from a man until I met Serge Benhayon. I have always been very guarded with men they were not my favorite people at all. Serge Benhayon has showed me over the years that I cannot tar every man with the same brush as the saying goes. Now, I know lots of men who are so tender and gentle to be around and it is such a pleasure to drop my guard and allow myself to relax in their company.

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  • Greg Barnes says: December 16, 2018 at 8:48 pm

    Tenderness and Sacredness are part of us all and when this is being lived to our best ability then the level of Love we are exploring will deepen along with being Tender and Sacred.

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