Relationships are precious. There is the potential in each relationship to reflect back to us an aspect of the puzzle we are all here on earth to piece together.
Life itself has taught me this. Every relationship I have had, and continue to have, has helped me go deeper into the most important of all relationships – the relationship with myself. And then in turn, this has had a very positive effect on all my other relationships as well.
What I have learnt is that when a relationship is based on a commitment to bringing love to it no matter what, it actually needs no passport! It needs no physical presence for the relationship to deepen and for the love to grow. We can be across the world, sometimes not even speak to each other for some time, and this will not matter if the love continues to be there. Love remains at work, holding the other, as we hold ourselves and in that holding, immense healing takes place.
Some 16 years ago I chose to move from the UK to Australia. The call to move was undeniable and the moment I set foot on Australian soil I knew I was home. It was that simple. I arrived here with my then partner – with all my family remaining on the other side of the world.
I kept regular contact with my family, as one would expect, and would take regular trips back to the UK to visit. A few years after I had made the move, one of my brothers became mentally ill and a likely danger to himself and others. What followed were some very distressing times for my brother and my mother in particular, who was at the forefront of the situation. There were regular phone calls and Skype conversations to try and support with what was happening – and when I say support, back then it was all about fixing this problem to make it go away.
Yes, I wanted to support my mother and absolutely I wanted to help my brother. But I also wanted the problem to go away because it was so awful to have hanging around. Underlying all my efforts and intentions, there was this unreconciled guilt that I wasn’t physically there to support them from close.
This guilt was foreboding – what was I to do? Was I to pack up and return to the UK and be physically there? Was that what was needed? Would it make all the difference?
I took this inner turmoil I was feeling to a healing session with a very wise esoteric practitioner, who lived a quality of relationships with others that I very much admired. I remember the session as clearly now as I did back then, and it is these words in particular that keep coming back:
‘As you heal, those in close relationship with you will also heal.’
At the time I couldn’t really get this.
I got a sense of what the words were saying, but I couldn’t quite accept that what was being said was in fact a truth. How could this be relevant when my family was on the other side of the world, literally? But I decided to be open to what had been said at least, and to deepen my own commitment to healing all those unreconciled hidden pockets of pain within myself. I was curious to see what ripple effect this could potentially have on my relationship with my brother, and on my brother’s situation.
What unfolded over the years that followed was nothing less than a miracle. I watched from the other side of the world as my brother, who had become a recluse with a bleak future and nowhere to turn, took absolute hold of his life and turned it around. I watched him walk away from drugs and alcohol and from the party crowds he used to hang out with – even though this meant that he would feel even more lonely for a period of time.
I also watched him turn around from being staunchly against medical intervention to cooperating with the doctors fully, knowing that was an essential part of the responsibility he needed to take. I watched him make those steps to going back into the world again, to working, to being amongst people and developing a confidence within himself that he could now bring into social situations. This was a confidence he did not have before. And I watched the joy he would have as a little boy return to his face. His eyes once again saying, ‘I see you and I am here.’
I visited my brother just 3 or 4 times over this period – and this is in the course of approximately 5 years. Our relationship deepened with the physical distance being there, and it wasn’t about being on Skype or the phone every day. Sometimes we would not talk for days, even weeks. But what was always there was my resolute commitment to holding my brother and the situation in love, and addressing anything that would get in the way of this. This meant looking at any expectations or frustrations I might have had, any belief systems that I had taken on to consider the situation being under the banner of right and wrong.
Love doesn’t have right and wrongs. It simply holds the other person in the grandness they innately are – and this was my vantage point. If I was not seeing in my brother the grandness that he is, lurking underneath the turmoil he was in, I would look back at myself first. What was in me that was covering up the truth that love will always let you see?
It wasn’t smooth sailing by any means – there were challenges and difficult times, particularly for my brother – but underlyingly it was clear that he was now feeling held by something bigger, something far stronger, than the seeming darkness of his immediate situation.
I did not want to accept those words that the esoteric practitioner had expressed to me back then, because in accepting them I would have needed to accept my power as well. The power each one of us has in that the quality we hold ourselves in, is the quality we hold all others in.
And herein is the responsibility that we often duck from in relationships.
If we make relationships about “you do your bit, I do my bit and then our needs will meet in the middle”, we don’t need to consider the powerful ripple effect that is happening anyway between us. But when I say powerful – is it from a loving, healing quality if we are choosing to behave and relate in a way that is contra to this?
Whether we like it or not, we are always oozing something out of ourselves and whatever it is we are oozing is being latched on to by the other! So do we ooze love, joy and a commitment to letting go of our hurts, knowing there is a vastness of more love to connect to underneath them, or do we ooze the icky hurts themselves? Do we stand up the walls of protection where we allow some people to access some parts of us, but always with conditions and always with a get-out clause, which means we never let ourselves get too close?
A true relationship has no walls and no protection. We deepen constantly; we bear who we truly are constantly. We jump off the cliff knowing we will be held in God’s love, which is our love. And so we go for it in full.
I can even go as far to say that a true relationship is the communication of Heaven in physical form. What we exchange amongst each other is far from merely physical, emotional and spiritual – it is in fact, the exchange of the entire universe with the vastness of the stars coming through one divine spark to the other. Because it is through relationships that we remember the stupendous grandness we are from and that we are all, eventually, heading back to.
By Anonymous, Australia
Further Reading:
My Brother – Not an In-LAW
Making a relationship about true love
Constellations
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I am with you on this, Jane. Carers often give everything they have away to ones they care for instead of sharing what is there. Without deep self-care and deepening the relationship with ourselves, each of us is lost.
‘Love doesn’t have right and wrongs. It simply holds the other person in the grandness they innately are’.
I love being held in this love and love holding another in this empowering energy. In the end each of us has the key to everything at hand inside and it is often only a matter of giving ourselves permission to let it out.
Hmmm yes Monica, the ‘Lens of Love’ – fogged by our issues, but cleared through that commitment to knowing ourselves and others by our true quality.
“it is through relationships that we remember the stupendous grandness we are from and that we are all, eventually, heading back to” If we are all from the same source then it stands to reason that we have this powerful effect on one another when it is the same love that runs through each of us.
Technology has made the world a much smaller and accessible place but only love gives us true connection.
Recently I visited some friends whom I haven’t see in 11 years and we hardly kept in touch during our time apart. But when we spent time together, we realised that the time we spent apart and the distance we lived from each other didn’t affect our relationship. It felt like those 11 years were more like a few days ago. So, when love and connection is present, time seems to shrink in the most loving way.
Living proof that the more we learn to treasure our selves the more it has a magical effect on others. If we want other people to change their lives, then we need to be embodying the principles that we are craving them to adopt. So often we prop each other up through our self-created neglectful patterns. It is very powerful when one family member breaks the habit and establishes a new norm. It enables us to re-orientate our selves back to self-respect and self-responsibility even when the connection is remote.
This to me is a huge ouch!, for humanity because how many of us live this way
“The power each one of us has in that the quality we hold ourselves in, is the quality we hold all others in.”
This shows me that unfortunately we live in an expendable, loveless society.
“I can even go as far to say that a true relationship is the communication of Heaven in physical form. What we exchange amongst each other is far from merely physical, emotional and spiritual – it is in fact, the exchange of the entire universe with the vastness of the stars coming through one divine spark to the other. Because it is through relationships that we remember the stupendous grandness we are from and that we are all, eventually, heading back to.” This is an exquisite definition of relationships. Relationships give us the opportunity to see ourselves reflected.
Leonne, reading this makes me appreciate my relationships more, knowing that there is a reason we have come together and that there is potential learning and evolution for both of us; ‘Relationships are precious. There is the potential in each relationship to reflect back to us an aspect of the puzzle we are all here on earth to piece together.’
The illusion that we get amazing relationships delivered on our lap is one of the most harmful ideals to which we have become attached. You clarify this beautifully Anonymous and then go one step further to show how the way we are affects everyone else in this world, regardless of the borders that we know. The choices we make everyday have serious consequences for us all. Rather than stamps in passports, perhaps we should have confirming marks indicting how loving we have been. Our choices are the only thing holding us back in this world.
I find this amazing that how we live on one side of the planet affects our family on the other. It is another example showing how we are all connected – and in fact that how we live affects everybody on the planet. I certainly find that friends across the world are all ealing with the same issues as me, or making the same discoveries, having revelations that are similar. We truly are a one humanity.
Doesn’t it Carmel… it clearly illustrates how every movement we make does have an impact everywhere. It is a grand concept to grasp because for a long time we shunned away from that responsibility. But the reality is, we are all very powerful beings, and how we choose to use or abuse that power is what it comes down to for each of us.
Wow anonymous what a powerful revelation about relationships. It is gorgeous reading that each of us are divine sparks through which the vastness of the universe touches another. Indeed “it is through relationships that we remember the stupendous grandness we are from and that we are all, eventually, heading back to.” So beautifully put.
So isn’t it wonderfully powerful when we nominate that which we allow takes us away from living who we are so that we can live and hold a greater love from within ourselves and hence bring and offer to the all.
I find that the more healing I do for myself the more I am able to offer to others including the close members of my family. As a result they have made choices to heal too. We can inspire simply by choosing to live in a way that is true and vital. It is always noticed and others are free to be inspired or not.
Wow wow wow, what an article – what a healing offered. when I read “Love remains at work, holding the other, as we hold ourselves and in that holding, immense healing takes place.” the hairs all over my body stood on end – these words also having the same meaning for when someone has passed over. Love always remains and in our universe of interconnectiveness whatever we are doing always affects another even if they are no longer on this plane of life.
And I too will say that I agree with Anonymous in sharing that as we heal, those around us heal too, and this means that anyone who is connected to us in some way will also heal, and hence it is a win win for all, though the healing process may not always be pleasant to experience!
Hello Anonymous, and thank you for sharing about your experience and the connections you have had with your loved ones despite the distance in kilometers! I too have moved from Europe to Australia and have my family living in Europe in various parts, and thankfully in many ways we have learned to deeply appreciate the skype calls and the emails and all the little ways of communication, which certainly do not stop us from feeling close to each other!
Anonymous, I love this; ‘Love remains at work, holding the other, as we hold ourselves and in that holding, immense healing takes place.’ It feels really important to remember that it is not how much time we spend with someone but the quality we are in and the quality in which we hold others.
That’s so true Rebecca, and what a healing that revelation in itself brings. We don’t have to try or fix anything. In fact we don’t have to do anything. All that is asked of us is to love.
If we make our relationship with ourselves about love and nothing else, then by default we make all of our relationships about love and nothing else.
‘If we make relationships about “you do your bit, I do my bit and then our needs will meet in the middle”, we don’t need to consider the powerful ripple effect that is happening anyway between us. But when I say powerful – is it from a loving, healing quality if we are choosing to behave and relate a way that is contra to this?’ This statement leapt off the page for me. I see how children, especially siblings, can behave in this way and they don’t understand that in tightly protecting their corner they are inviting others to tightly protect theirs too, often getting nowhere and ending up bickering, in frustration and in tears. Sadly we carry this through into adulthood feeling resentful if we don’t get recognition for the part we play or if we feel that others are not playing their part. The cold hardness we have accepted is so damaging, but what you have shared is that there is a different way and it is one that is open and available to all of us.
Thank you Anon for sharing how love literally moves mountains… and that it surrounds and supports us constantly. I have found something similar with moving from Australia to Canada 4 years ago, in that I could see things so much clearer with distance, and have witnessed miraculous changes in all our family back in Australia. Family members who are doing things that they never thought they would in this life, and I know this is because of how we live here and with no perfection how we are with them. Your blog has made me stop and appreciate this but also has brought home the responsibility we have to not just ourselves… but everyone.
Love it Aimee, the writer is not alone in their experiences!
I definitely agree with the last line. Wonderfully said as it is very true. Nothing of this world is ever perfect, we make mistakes, we get things happening in ways we may not have desired. Yet it is our expression that ultimately allows this world to feel and exhibit the grand and gloriousness we truly are within.
I love this – no trying, just being and no expectations.
A willingness to heal – to look at all the things that are not us and essentially baggage – is a huge step to being able to support our bodies and other relationships. With healing we are a reflection of love for others – and this sharing is so powerful in the possibility of what true healing brings.
I love your last paragraph. We can try reducing what is to whatever the size we think we can handle and try convincing ourselves, but the truth remains the same, it is much grander than what we can possibly imagine.
Awesome Anonymous! Relationships are the most important thing we have to get right or truly to live for. Everything else is a byproduct.
And if we live this model of our relationships, there will be no need for national borders and actual passports!
Spot on Michael, and so it is exposing that we have made national borders and actual passports as a means to separate, rather than bring together and Unite!
I have experienced this in relationships. it is an absolute joy to meet someone you haven’t seen for some time and feel how the love has deepened between you both.
Thank you Abby. I have this experience too and yet had not really felt in to what this was about. Very lovely.
Love is the foundation of all relationships.
It is so true that “…the quality we hold ourselves in, is the quality we hold all others in” too. If we are truly loving with ourselves then we will be just as loving with all others.
The power of love is truly a blessing… thank you for sharing Anonymous.
Thank you Anon. Your blog clearly shows that working on oursleves and living the grandness we are to best of our ability has an impact on others wherever our location in the world is, and our connection with each other by far exceeds skpye or the telephone or being there in person. Wise words your practitioner shared with you.
Thank you, Anonymous, for sharing with us the miracle of love.
“The power each one of us has in that the quality we hold ourselves in, is the quality we hold all others in.” Life’s Base camp.
And life’s key to true power.
And it will eventually one day be this way – where there are no longer the physical boundaries and borders that we have in the world now. These are man-made and an extension of the borders carved within ourselves, the separation to our own inner most conection and from there to everybody else.
Once we shift this within, the landscape without will also change. And one day, we really will no longer have the need for passports.
“If we make relationships about “you do your bit, I do my bit and then our needs will meet in the middle”, we don’t need to consider the powerful ripple effect that is happening anyway between us” – This is an excellent point. If every one of our movements makes ripples and we are in the same ‘sea’/pool, then there is no middle ground and we are actually responsible all of the time for our relationships even when we might not be with people face to face.
Really blown away with the beauty expressed in this blog. The way back to who we are is through love and this love can’t help but express itself with another.
This is a amazing wake up call to the responsibility that we all have for how we are in all our relationships and that there is no need to be physically present for our love to be felt and the ripple effects of this to have profound impacts way beyond what we may imagine.
‘As you heal, those in close relationship with you will also heal.’ This is quite a statement isn’t it, but until actually witnessed it can be hard to believe. Through your example you show that the principle of ‘everything is energy’ and everything is connected, is true.
This is so true, it is not what is said or done it is our consistency steadiness and holding of love that allows others to heal.
Why do we spend our lives like a cactus that only allow certain people in? Why not be a flower that is for everyone to enjoy our beauty and take our nectar with you.
‘The quality we hold ourselves in, is the quality we hold all others in’. Anonymous thank you. I can relate to what you share having experienced something similar in my own family. When we stop trying to fix others, but instead deepen our relationship and love for ourselves, the healing ripple has no bounds or boundaries.
Thank you Anonymous for sharing such a profound and inspirational story; a beautiful, lived example of what can happen when we are willing to heal ourselves from what is on offer from the reflections that occur in our lives.
Thank you, truly inspiring to read about the power of love and your commitment to continually discard anything that got in the way of holding your brother with love.
To let go of the self and completely make love our foundation we become the powerhouses in the world that are needed to heal all the hurts in people and to remove all the pollution we have dumped to the earth we live on too.
We need to keep bringing it back to ourselves, over and over and over again because it is only by returning ourselves to love that we will be able to return the world to love. There is no other way.
Anonymous you have defined relationships in a way that few other people would and yet your definition is one that deep down each one of us knows.
We like to look for love every where and how amazing it is we find out that when we hold ourselves in love we hold the other in that same space and love is everywhere around and in us felt even the person we are with is not choosing it.
It is so healing to read this and such an amazing confirmation of the healing power of love when we get ourselves out of the way.
I have been learning that and feeling how true it is that Love doesn’t have a right or wrong, Love holds you and everyone equally in Love. This is a huge one to crack, to feel and to realise that it actually has nothing to do with what you are defending but connecting to what is truly there on offer.
Yes Natalie, there is nothing in life to defend, even not the love that we may have chosen as the foundation of our lives as love just is love whatever we may think.
Goodness gracious me … what an absolutely stunning expression and blog. Everyone in the world should read this, boy oh boy it says so much but most of all what stood out for me right at the beginning was when you said ‘commitment to love’ and what I got from this even more is when we truly, deeply commit to love and to holding others in this love, miracles do indeed happen. Thank you so much for sharing this .. pure magic ✨ and super inspiring
“but underlyingly it was clear that he was now feeling held by something bigger, something far stronger, than the seeming darkness of his immediate situation.” Could you imagine if we were all held in this love?
Because it is through relationships that we remember the stupendous grandness we are from and that we are all, eventually, heading back to. Beautifully said Anonymous, relationships offer reflections back to us and from us and when love is at the helm, true evolution is a given.
This power we have is amazing and undeniable. Appreciating how much I accept all you’ve said is actually quite lovely, yes there are greater levels of awareness to this which is also saying love has no boundaries. I may not live this expression but I do know I’ve scratched the surface on acceptance of this. Love is an emanation that keeps on going once it’s expressed. We can heal so much, people can resist but not forever and once they stop resisting they’ll know the love that’s been there waiting all along.
The very beautiful thing is, that even when someone resists it actually doesn’t ‘matter’ as such. That is because their bodies have received the impress of a way of being that resonates as absolutely true to it – because our bodies are designed to live in harmony and in brotherhood. So even when one resists, the marker of the love they have felt (because it is always felt even when denied) is forever with them,. It’s a marker that will activate when they are ready to say yes to what was offered. That could be 10 years from now, or 150 years from now. Everyone does return in their own time – all we need to do is reflect the love we have remembered and now live.
‘I can even go as far to say that a true relationship is the communication of Heaven in physical form.’ Absolutely divine and so true, and from this, I am beginning to see how powerful it is when we live in true relationship with ourselves, with people and with God. This highlights to me how important relationships are and what they offer us in every moment and in every opportunity to reflect heaven on earth.
This is something we need to realise ourselves every moment of our life ; ‘The power each one of us has in that the quality we hold ourselves in, is the quality we hold all others in.’
WOW! This blog is incredible, powerful and deeply inspiring. ‘A true relationship has no walls and no protection.’ I realise how thick and high my walls are that I have created over the years and it has been confronting lately when I realised how many walls are still present, strong and thick (maybe even doubled layered), blocking the flow of love. I want to break them down, dismantle every piece of these thick walls, but strangely, a part of me finds this difficult because I have been so used to using them as a security blanket, a way to keep people out and not evolve. After reading your blog, it blew me away, well, it also blew parts of my walls away. Thank you, for sharing this heavenly expression.
This is such a big lesson, ‘love doesn’t have right and wrongs. It simply holds the other person in the grandness they innately are’. I am really in the process of seeing how much I operate from hurt and in this life becomes about trying to make people right and wrong. It doesn’t allow them to be and hold them in love which is much more freeing for them and for you.
Wow powerful stuff offered here. If I heal, others will also heal. That is a big possibility and responsibility. Let’s give it a try.
This shows how much we affect everybody else in all that we do and how we already support each other simply by taking deep care of ourselves and healing our own hurts and pain.
Indeed not much is required if we live from a connection to love within us, a grand origin that we all belong to.The world without makes no sense. Living accordingly is the most important ever, forget our nationality, our pasport, our physical appearance, our reputation, our job, our status or achievements itself.. Nothing actually counts more when than the love you have lived and built in your life and with others.
One of the very interesting things I have discovered about healing is that it does not always mean we get better or the symptoms go away. I have a friend recently who underwent a massive and very joyful healing and in that she was riddled with terminal cancer and passed away, whilst another one of my friends also went through a healing and her apparently terminal cancer has gone into remission. There is so much more to true energetic healing than may at first appear on the surface.
Thank you Anon, what a beautiful blog and yes it is indeed something when we connect to the immense power and responsibility we each bring.
This is such an exquisite sharing that shows that how we are in relationships matter and that there are opportunities for all in every relationship – nothing can ever be underestimated.
Wow that is so amazing that as you worked on deepening your relationship and healing your hurts, this reflection was felt by others around you. Such a joy to read and truly appreciate the extent to which we are more connected than we may think with each other.
Anonymous, wow what an amazing article, having family across the world I find this very supportive to read knowing that I can hold them in love no matter how far apart we are – very beautiful, thank you.
A very beautiful sharing showing us how every movement we make has the power to heal or harm another anywhere else in the world. This is true responsibility.
The quality I hold myself in is power. Nothing I do or achieve but how I hold myself is what brings forth the grandness we are. Such simplicity yet since I haven’t lived this it makes sense that a part of me hasn’t wanted to be grand despite the efforts that have been dressed to be greater and grander from an illusionary low point.
Indeed whilst we hold onto hurts and attachments we cannot but affect those around us in ways we may not always truly want. To truly support another we must also equally let go of hurt and embrace the love we are.
‘Love doesn’t have right and wrongs. It simply holds the other person in the grandness they innately are’… and because of that, there are not expectations or demands, just the observation, acceptance and confirmation of what already there is between each other in its continuous expansion.
Nothing is more inspiring for someone than to see us heal our hurts, showing it is possible and simple to do. If we are in fixing mode we can say the words of what the other should do but it is in the end always because we do not want to feel the hurt of the other person doing what they are doing, and the hurt of knowing we do this in an area of life as well. Super inspiring, thank you.
Our need to not see what is around us means we allow behaviour that is very harming and abdicate responsibility for having a choice in that behaviour.
‘As you heal, those in close relationship with you will also heal.’ . . . . so beautifully stated and so true. The most loving thing for us to do for all the people we love so dearly is to heal our own hurts and live life in the fullness of who we are by following the impulses of our inner heart. All will benefit from our taking responsibility for ourselves.
Very true Kathleen and isn’t it so beautiful how it takes away any notion of trying? We don’t need to save, fix or strive for anyone or anything. Our one job is to love. To love with our all, and to open up more and more to the infinite vastness of our love every single day.
We tend to go about our days not registering the impact we have on others. I know for myself, I don’t tend to appreciate the qualities I bring enough – which is in fact irresponsible. We are all here to reflect a unique piece of a humongous jigsaw puzzle that is straight for Heaven to lead us back to Heaven. That in fact, is our purpose. And – it can be a lot of fun 🙂
“What was in me that was covering up the truth that love will always let you see?” – this is such an incredible way of viewing life, of seeing other people and relationships. Rather than seeing the other person as the issue, it is recognising that within everyone no matter the issues they are facing or the issues between us, there is an inner essence that is untouched or tarnished, and if we are unable to see or connect to it in another then we need to look at what is getting in the way
We have a far greater impact on people than we like to believe.
Wow anonymous, you share with us the power of holding steady in our truth and love and what it can bring when we see another also from the truth of them.
Wow I love your last sentence ! Magnificent beings we all are, with enormous power to heal.
What an amazing journey of the power of true healing in our livingness and love. This is a beautiful sharing and learning of what is possible with true communication and relationships to treasure and know.
“Love doesn’t have right and wrongs. It simply holds the other person in the grandness they innately are”. I could feel these words of wisdom flow through every particle of my body as I read them and then read them again. I can feel that this is a truth that I have always known but had buried deep inside but now that I have acknowledged it I can feel the grandness that I am, that we all are.
Wow – what incredible and powerful truth you have expressed Anonymous. Your blog helps me to see that sympathy has absolutely no place in relationships. In fact we use sympathy to deny our own responsibility. If we live love others will feel it – this is the best medicine we can offer.
Love knows no boundaries or borders literally and this includes the ‘borders’ and ‘boundaries’ we put up between us as people as well as geographical ones.
Wow, I love this, especially the last part when it becomes about relationships being a communication from heaven. I am only beginning to get a grasp of how interconnected we all are, and each time something occurs that confirms this, I feel absolute joy inside, in being a part of something so very grand.
Thanks Anonymous, this was a good blog for me to read as I live on the other side of the world to my mum and often feel guilt for not being there to support her in her later years. So knowing that the work I am doing on myself is supporting her and various others back home that I have felt I should have been there for is great to know.
This is a gorgeous way of evaluating our relationships and a great question; do we communicate our ‘everything’ and all the love in the world to every person we come into contact with? Can you imagine what would happen if we did!
‘As you heal, those in close relationship with you will also heal’. These words really struck me too as I read them because it takes away any need for trying, for needing to get things right, for doing, fixing or rescuing. With holding ourselves in love and the other with love and with a willingness to heal we, without imposition, reflect to another that it’s possible for them to heal too and there is a natural pull towards love.
Brilliant blog Anonymous, no matter how well intentioned our motives might be it is an important matter of honesty that we admit we want issues to go away. For when we are in this mode as you beautifully show we can’t hold ourselves or others in Love.
A beautiful blog on the power of love. Our relationships can reflect this or not depending on how we choose to live and express. What we choose to emanate has a huge effect on everyone else, whether we like to admit this or not.
This is a powerful blog, anonymous in the sharing of your experience. To clearly see how our re-connection with ourselves and how the power of our own healing can support another, whilst we hold them in love, is miraculous. Of course, your brother had to choose the change, but this platform was made easier and possible because of you. It defies all our current thought about healing and the individuality we hold ourselves in.
Relationships are a great reminder of the grandness we are from when we choose to be ourselves and bring the love we are to others. Then we have no need or expectations rather allow the love to unfold and deepen which is truly magical. If we bring anything less then it is not truly a relationship, atleast not all that it could be. And this is the case with everyone, irrespective of whether they are your initimate partner or not.
” If I was not seeing in my brother the grandness that he is, lurking underneath the turmoil he was in, I would look back at myself first. What was in me that was covering up the truth that love will always let you see?” Wow! What a reflection.
Brilliant blog Anonymous – exposing solutions as being quick fixes rather than true long-term healing.
That which is so complex is so simple when the truth is understood about everything being inter-related and the fact that we do affects everything and everyone else energetically Worldwide.
‘As you heal, those in close relationship with you will also heal.’
A loving relationship with another does not depend on a physical presence as it offers the opportunity to feel as does a love of God deepen the more we feel the love.
What an amazing journey back to one’s self and the ripples it creates all around us… that is always just a choice away for all of us!
So well said – when we don’t hold another in love first, despite all outer appearances to the contrary, we get into right and wrong and should and shouldn’t. Remorse and guilt are oftentimes the consequences. And that means that we add to the sludge in the world, to the created mess of emotions, issues and conundrums. Love, this way of living is not.
This article highlights the absolute necessity for each of us to again find that spark we have within, to begin to and with consistency love ourselves, in full, warts and all. For this is the very basic foundation to healing our hurts, as they present, no rush, no push, but a clear commitment to do so. Our power is needed, world wide, it is our truest way of being a human being.
Never again can we underestimate our power once we have read this article.
Thank you for these incredibly inspiring and restoring words. Love is not dependent on geography. It is universal and unifying, for it is the grandness we are and are from. When this is connected to and lived, such love beholds and bathes all others in this. Love is who we are.
…and how can one not be in love with that fact.
Love does not need a passport as it has no boundaries.
“What we exchange amongst each other is far from merely physical, emotional and spiritual – it is in fact, the exchange of the entire universe with the vastness of the stars coming through one divine spark to the other.”- These words are like music to my ears and I can feel that they are themselves from Heaven, Anonymous. This blog really shows where our true power lies, through inspiration, but also proves that all our movements and actions have an affect on others at an energetic level that has nothing to do with physical contact. Truly amazing we are when we accept that responsibility as you have demonstrated here.
‘Music to my ears’ too Michael, bringing home that through our reflection another sees the divine spark they also are. Change your movements, speak in a way you don’t usually or eat something you never do… and people notice. Within our every day we have the choice to confirm another to make loving steps again or continue on the harming path they are on.