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Couples, Relationships 725 Comments on My Gorgeous Husband – A Man to Appreciate

My Gorgeous Husband – A Man to Appreciate

By Johanna Smith · On October 30, 2015

My gorgeous husband continuously surprises me with his level of openness and willingness to deepen the love in himself and in our relationship. I am forever in appreciation and awe of this and I admire that when I present more love, there is not an ounce of resistance in him to going deeper. For me, this is the confirmation of how powerful the expression of love is: it is supportive, beholding and asking us to further question, unfold and return to the greatness we are all actually from.

For the first time in this life I feel that I am in an intimate, fully committed relationship with a man where we treat each other as equals: we are each unique, we each have our own offerings and strengths in our relationship as we do have areas we each need support with.

However, together we are on the path to be all that we can be with each other, all others, and ourselves in every part of our day. This is an appreciation of him and for him, but also of myself and my deepening commitment to living and being the love that I am in full.

My gorgeous husband is tender, deeply considerate, unimposing, loving, gentle and super caring. He is a powerhouse, he has the ability to unify and gather people, to relate caringly with them and build strong relationships. He is able to see, feel, nominate, and clearly voice his feelings of how things have played out the way they have. He is able to acknowledge when he is wrong and to speak about areas he wants to place more loving attention into.

These are all qualities that I see and appreciate in him but at times he does not see in himself, or have appreciation for . . . and he is aware of this. I fully understand how this can happen and have felt the same in myself too. I totally love his honesty as he chooses to move forward with now bringing appreciation of himself; as he continues to self-care and deepen his relationship with himself, he develops an ever growing presence.

All of this has unfolded with a loving rapidity for him in the past year and I fully admire him, also appreciating the level of love that is now available for us all to connect to and choose in our way of living.

This is a dedication to the love and openness of my husband, and the unending love from Our Soul, always calling us to be more love.

In deep appreciation of Serge Benhayon and the presentations of the Ancient Wisdom and Universal Medicine for reflecting this love to me. This consistent reflection has supported my journey that began eight years ago by reconnecting to the love that I am, to me, and to my greatness. Now we live that love in our family, at work, with our friends and in our lives.

Forever learning and unfolding . . .

By Johanna Smith, Bachelor of Education

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Johanna Smith

Living in Rockingham, Perth and loving life. I live with my gorgeous husband and beautiful daughter. Life is about people for me, responsibility, care and consideration for others. I love daily walks and being with friends, adore the beachside and bush scenery, and enjoy cuddles with my puppy. I teach fulltime, love sharing my amazingness, and am constantly learning from kids.

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725 Comments

  • Mary Adler says: October 3, 2020 at 2:14 pm

    Appreciation of the beauty of who we are inspires others to appreciate an equal beauty in themselves.

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  • Amparo Lorente Cháfer says: May 10, 2020 at 2:01 pm

    When we locate ourselves in Love, it spreads in every part of our life confirming back the origin we all come from. Then, we can appreciate that beauty in others as a reflection of ours

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  • SLC says: October 24, 2019 at 6:17 am

    The more I appreciate myself quite simply the more I am able to love and appreciate my husband.

    My husband is simply divine.

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  • Michelle McWaters says: August 27, 2019 at 11:41 pm

    ‘My gorgeous husband is tender, deeply considerate, unimposing, loving, gentle and super caring. He is a powerhouse, he has the ability to unify and gather people, to relate caringly with them and build strong relationships.’ I recognise this quality in so many men I know. The tender care, the beautiful consideration and so on are innate to men in general but so few dare let the expression of it out in full.

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  • Mary says: June 30, 2019 at 9:39 pm

    Johanna what you have shared is very beautiful and imagine what the world would be like if we all held each other in such a loving way. Many people scoff at this image but if we start to love ourselves and grow from there and develop relationships built on the same love then like dominoes the world can change, it is possible and it is already happening.

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  • Annoymous says: April 26, 2019 at 6:10 am

    “This is a dedication to the love and openness of my husband, and the unending love from Our Soul, always calling us to be more love.” You words resonate deeply within in me, also appreciating and confirming the glorious, tender beautiful amazing husband I have.

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  • Caroline Francis says: January 28, 2019 at 5:23 pm

    What we allow in to get in the way of appreciation is huge for it not only stops us from appreciating ourselves but it stops us from appreciating all others.

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  • Lorraine Wellman says: December 29, 2018 at 4:30 pm

    I agree Johanna, deep appreciation for Serge Benhayon and all he brings for humanity, ‘In deep appreciation of Serge Benhayon and the presentations of the Ancient Wisdom and Universal Medicine for reflecting this love to me. This consistent reflection has supported my journey that began eight years ago by reconnecting to the love that I am, to me, and to my greatness.’

    Reply
  • Mary Adler says: November 24, 2018 at 4:32 pm

    The power of love magnified in appreciation of each other.

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  • Lorraine Wellman says: November 17, 2018 at 3:29 pm

    This is a gorgeous example of true appreciation for another; when we appreciate ourselves it is much easier to appreciate others.

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  • Lorraine says: November 17, 2018 at 3:23 pm

    Appreciation of ourselves and others is really important and very powerful, ‘This is an appreciation of him and for him, but also of myself and my deepening commitment to living and being the love that I am in full.’

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  • Ingrid Ward says: October 7, 2018 at 5:45 pm

    What a beautiful and true role model your husband is for all men, and especially our young men who are growing into adulthood. There are so few role models for our boys and as a result many of them struggle through life not knowing who they truly are as societal beliefs tell them that to be a man in the world they need to bury their natural sensitivity and tenderness by hardening up. Well your gorgeous husband certainly blows those archaic belief to pieces.

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  • Meg says: September 20, 2018 at 3:11 pm

    I love how people can constantly surprise us with the incredible depth of what they have to offer – it’s like every person has a limitless well when it comes to the potential of who they are and what is inside them.

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    • Helen Elliott says: November 15, 2018 at 5:45 pm

      So true Meg and it is ever expanding when we are willing to be open to it.

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  • Meg says: August 22, 2018 at 1:49 am

    Appreciating the people we love is everything – life can never be dull or mundane when we see how amazing the people around us are.

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  • jennym says: July 2, 2018 at 6:18 am

    Without appreciating what is, how can we go deeper in the intimacy there is to have in our relationships?

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  • Jill Steiner says: June 13, 2018 at 5:32 am

    Beautiful what you have shared Johanna, thank you “This is a dedication to the love and openness of my husband, and the unending love from Our Soul, always calling us to be more love.” My appreciation for my husband is deepening more and more, also my appreciation for my Soul in revealing to me the root causes of some of my unloving behaviours so that healing can take place and the love that I can evolve to take its place.

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  • Meg says: June 8, 2018 at 1:49 pm

    I think our world sorely lacks real appreciation for each other and our amazing qualities. Yet it’s an abundant source – once you begin to appreciate you find there’s a never-ending well or a tap that you can never turn off.

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  • kim says: June 7, 2018 at 5:45 am

    Totally gorgeous offering of love Johanna. When we see and appreciate all another is, we offer an incredible foundation for them to always fall back on and remember who they are.

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  • MW says: May 8, 2018 at 5:35 am

    While I am not married, I have many men in my life who deeply enrich my life with their quality of love, tenderness, care and openess. It is beautiful to have men who are able to open up, express and share themselves with others.

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  • MW says: March 25, 2018 at 9:30 am

    When someone holds us in deep appreciation of all we are, it allows us to come back to this when we have lost our way or let doubt in.

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    • Nattalija says: September 30, 2018 at 12:50 pm

      Appreciation is the foundation for all relationships.

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  • Ingrid Ward says: March 24, 2018 at 5:49 am

    I love this ‘love letter’ that you have written about your husband. It had me smiling with every part of me at the honesty and the joy you have shared. It is the appreciation of him that is so tangible and I am sure that has come from you appreciating you and the wonderful woman that you are. The reflections that we get from those closest to us are price-less.

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  • chris james says: March 23, 2018 at 8:36 pm

    We can often see in others qualities that they cannot see or feel within themselves. Then it is simply reflecting this back to them, like an offering, with no attachment.

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  • Carola Woods says: March 19, 2018 at 4:58 pm

    The greatest loving act we can offer one another through our relationships is that of evolution, as it is through our evolving that we can deepen and return to the greater connection to love for ourselves and together, that which we are all from as such be who we truly are.

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  • greg Barnes says: March 9, 2018 at 12:24 pm

    Deepening our relationship with those who we are closest to, is such a great way to develop and deepen all our relationships.

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    • Carola Woods says: March 19, 2018 at 5:04 pm

      Beautifully said Greg and so true. This highlights how possible it is for us all to return to live sharing harmonious and loving relationships, and at one humanity.

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  • Sam says: March 3, 2018 at 1:45 am

    Sometimes as crazy as it seems I have a hard time accepting how much my husband loves me, its like I can’t fully accept it and let it in, though as I deepen in the love and acceptance I have for myself so to can I allow more of this glorious love in. This continues to unfold but forever I am blown away by this beautiful, handsome wise man and how he is in life. Always Super inspired.

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  • Stephanie Stevenson says: January 27, 2018 at 11:14 pm

    Johanna, I love how deeply you are appreciating yourself and reflecting that this is the foundation to fully appreciate another.

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  • Rik Connors says: January 23, 2018 at 9:30 pm

    There is a lot to appreciate Johanna with the love you share with your husband – amazing that you keep on deepening the love and he does not resist – this shows the love and understanding you hold him in.
    I have come to know (in my body) how vitally responsible it is to appreciate all that there is to appreciate. It is key to building a foundation that is rock solid.

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